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mixed signals

Hot and Cold- This is How To Reply to His Mixed Signals!

Today I want to teach you how to respond to these common (and annoying!) ‘mixed signals’ messages men send.  The kind where you’re not sure if he’s pulling away, and that generally leaving you stumped as to what to say…

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personal quality

Use This Conversation Hack To Connect With Her

One of my favourite phrases for conversation skills is: ‘How someone is in one thing, they are in everything’. This means if you can identify how they view themselves, or one of their personal quality, or something that characterises themselves…

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flirty messages

3 Flirty Messages to Send to Her

You might have been wondering how to flirt with her. How can you communicate that you’re the kind of guy she should see as a boyfriend? I can understand why flirtation doesn’t always feel easy. In the modern age, it…

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Commitment Phobes

How to Avoid Commitment Phobes?

If you’ve been wondering why he feels guilty when he dates you; the chances are it has nothing to do with infidelity, instead he might be a commitment phobe. I know that you’re not responsible for somebody else’s feelings but…

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Get Him To Approach You Using These 3 Simple Hacks

I want to help you put the fun and joy back into being single and dating. If right now you’re starting to believe that no good single men exist, please let me help you to meet them. I will show…

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How To Really Listen To Her

If you know how to effectively listen, this will make all the difference in how easy you find conversations, and how well you connect with her. I know it doesn’t sound sexy, but listening can be a secret to being…

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great storyteller

How To Be A Great Storyteller!

One of the biggest fears with dating is running out of conversation. A great way to never worry about running out of conversation is to become a far better storyteller. If you have a pause in the conversation, guess what?…

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Relationship Red Flags

Top 9 Relationship Red Flags & When To IGNORE Them

If you’ve been hurt in the past (who hasn’t?) then you might be be approaching your future dates with caution. You never want to get hurt in that way again, and you certainly don’t want to waste your time. That’s…

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I need space

“I Need SPACE”: Here’s EXACTLY What To Do Next

When you receive the ‘I need space’ message, your whole world is turned upside down; and how you may instinctively want to react, often sets you up for disaster. Today I want to explain to you what he means when…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.