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Worrying About What To Message Him? Stop Right There

Stop worrying about what to message him? Is that possible? No more typing it out, then deleting it? Or (worse) sending then deleting that WhatsApp message to him? No more anxiety over him reading the message but not responding? Those…

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Steal These 4 Alpha Male Skills!  

The Harvard Business Review describes “alpha males” as: Bold, self-confident, and demanding, alpha males get things done.  Look, I’m a dating coach (and definitely not an evolutionary biologist) but this alpha male thing has always got a “hmmmm” out of…

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3 Simple Exercises to have Better Conversations with Women.

I know many of you out there will worry about what to talk about on your dates: Will there be awkward silences? Will you burn through the best of your chat? What does she want to talk about?!  I also…

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Start Living Your Life Like a Romcom: Mastering the “Meet Cute”

Wouldn’t it be nice if your dating life was a little bit more like a romcom? More “meet cutes” in quaint coffee shops, and less disappointing dates on dating apps?  Now, online dating can be great, but if you’re a…

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He’s Not Asking For Your Number? Try THIS Instagram Hack!

Even worse if you spend all evening talking to said hot guy and you part ways with an awkward: “…Well it was nice talking to you!” and you wind up thinking, ‘what was all that about?   As meeting hot…

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How To Exude Confidence In Group Conversations: 3 Tips

Being excluded from a group conversation sucks: Particularly when you’re trying hard to make a connection with a woman that you like… As a dating coach I’ve helped thousands of men, in a practical and hands on way, to be…

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Why Aren’t You Meeting Him? Remove this Dating Block Today!

I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking “Hayley, no, there’s not. Believe me, I’ve looked!” It’s time to remove this dating block! Ok, maybe your belief goes even deeper than that. Maybe you’re thinking: After a certain age, it’s a well-known…

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3 Subtle Signals she wants you to ask her out

If you want to meet more women right now, I bet you’re looking for signals that she’s interested in you.  But signals can be confusing, perhaps you’re worried that…  You’re missing opportunities by not noticing her signals.  You just don’t…

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Pass these 3 “checkpoints” before you ask her out

  I get it there are a lot of reasons why you might hold back on asking for her out.  You don’t want her to reject you… Could the timing be better? You’re not sure you’ve done “enough” to impress…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.