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First message to send to a guy: online dating

Before I even get on to WHAT first message to send to a guy online… the question you may be facing is, ‘should I be making the first move at all?’  I get it – there’s a strong argument here…

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What Message Should You Send First On A Dating App? (Part 1)

  I hope you caught my last blog where I started to explain why what message you should send first on a dating app is so important!  (In short, she’s not messaging you first and actually what kind of message…

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How do women choose guys on a dating app?

You should know by now, I am a big fan of meeting women in real life, but with C19 lingering and winter around the corner, you would be shrewd to also make sure that you have a great profile, pictures…

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5 Messages You Should Never Send To A Guy You Like

  I bet if a man was lucky enough to form a relationship with you, that you’d be an amazing partner. However (and this is a big one) he may never get that far unless you know how to communicate the…

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5 Texting Mistakes To Avoid

Today I wanted to share with you some killer texting mistakes to avoid. Let me tell you something you already know: how you message a woman is very, very important.  Nevermore so than in 2020 when we’re meeting people more…

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How To Date During Coronavirus?

Dating has changed (again). If you thought that modern dating was confusing enough, try adding in dating during coronavirus. Modern dating had already left behind the traditional playbook for how to build relationships. It has also introduced a need to…

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How To Dress Smart Casual For A Date

  You’ll also notice it listed as a dress code on things like wedding invitations (which btw are great places to meet women) so I wanted you to get a clear guide on how to dress to sort-of impress. To…

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How To Get Over Your Crush

Letting Go Of ‘That Guy’ – How To Get Over Your Crush

  We have all had a guy that we can’t get over. A crush that we just can’t seem to let go of. He doesn’t want a relationship with you and always has an excuse. When you’re together it is…

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Why Can’t I Find Love

  It is easy to say you cannot find love because people don’t want commitment anymore. To promise yourself that you don’t need anyone else: you don’t but it’s okay to want them. What is HARD to do is to admit…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.