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3 Messages To Send a Woman That Has NO BIO on a Dating App

It can be very annoying when you see a woman online you like, and she has no bio! It gives you nothing to work with and can make thinking of what would be a great first message to send her…

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rush for commitment

Why rush for commitment and over giving won’t help you find love?

  Are you a chronic over giver? Someone who is one of good people who like to be considerate to others, is thoughtful, and at times makes excuses for people? Do you rush for commitment and request it early on?…

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The Dating Strategy You Need To Attract Her

In my last blog I spoke to you about how to attract high quality women. How do I know what works with women like these? I coach them.  Yep, the women I work with are a long way away from being…

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approaching a woman

Why do you hold out from approaching a woman?

You may hold out from approaching a woman because you: Don’t know what to say Worry that if you did say something that it would come across as a little creepy That’s why in this post I want to do…

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High Quality Women

This Dating Advice Is Stopping You From Meeting High Quality Women

What makes you super attractive to women? Confidence, masculinity, being ‘alpha’? Here’s an important detail that you can’t forget when it comes to attracting high quality women * you have to choose a dating strategy that works for YOU.  Not the next…

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Dating myths

Busting Dating Myths On The Road To Healthy Love

  In the fourth and final episode of series on finding healthy love, Jillian and I talk about busting dating myths that keep us from finding healthy love. Dating myths are how you talk to yourself about dating. It’s the…

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The art of settling

  I’m a queen of settling and I no longer see it as this dirty word. I hear so many people saying they will never settle. It’s become the battle cry as a single person who’s come out a bad interaction.…

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Chase Games

Ditch the Chase Games: Here’s What Really Attracts Men

Ignore him and he’ll be more into you! Let him chase you! There’s quite a bit of dark dating advice out there which suggests if you can play the chase games with guys, then you can make them more attracted…

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Power Play In Dating

Earlier this week I was a guest one The Emma Guns Podcast where Emma and I discussed the power play in dating. We talked about the rules such as you shouldn’t text for x amount of time and all that…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.