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New Year's Resolutions

New Year’s Resolutions You Should Keep

Some New Year’s resolutions are pointless but if you want to meet more women there are some I’d love you to keep. 1. Just say YES & leave the house Not sure if I said this strongly enough so let…

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3 New Years Resolutions that will help you find love

You may not realise it but if you’re not meeting anyone then you’ve probably developed some unhelpful habits that are stopping you from finding love (or at least someone you really fancy..). If there are a few New Years resolutions…

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Why not buy drinks for girls

Last week I uploaded a silly youtube video of a guy’s wallet exploding when he offered to buy drinks. I wouldn’t really advise dousing your wallet in lighter fluid unless you’re a professional. *But* I’d kinda like it if there…

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How To Attract The Woman You Like At Work Via Email

You don’t want to harass anyone or make it #awks to go into work *but* legitimately work is a place where lots of people meet one another. So if you have an office crush I have some tips for you…

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Is ‘Daygame’ OK?

I know that you’re getting mixed messages about whether it is ok or not to meet women during the daytime. That phenomenon coined by some good friends of mine as ‘daygame’. So as ever I thought I’d test out public opinion…

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Pretty Enough for Him to Say Hello?

If there’s one cause I’m passionate about it’s about making sure you don’t feel weird taking control of your love lives. This includes feeling self-conscious and not enough- especially not pretty enough? As women we’ve heard a lot of junk…

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Are nightclubs a good place to meet women?

And the answer is…. it depends what your goals are and what kind of woman you want to attract. So, depending on what you are looking for, nightclub might or might not be a good place to meet women. If I…

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Alone at a Christmas party?

If I think back over to the nights where I’ve had the most fun, met the most people and (yes) probably enjoyed the most flirtation it’s definitely been when I’ve been Billy No Mates. And yes this includes the times…

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Are You the Good Guy or the Bad Guy?

If you’re not having the crazy, sexy fun life that you want I think I might know what your problem is… if you answer YES to these 3 questions I’ve got a diagnosis for you 😉 Are you a morally…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.