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tinder profile

What makes a great Tinder profile

Now as you know I am not a huge fan of you just using Tinder for dates. However, I can’t deny that if you’re aged 18- late 30s pretty much everyone you might want to date will have logged on…

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vampires & psychopaths

Why do women fancy vampires & psychopaths?

When asked what men in the movies/ TV series women were most attracted to they consistently said male characters who were vampires & psychopaths or not-very-nice guys (sometimes killers- gulp). Really. So have all women gone crazy-cray or is there…

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stressed & demotivated

Getting stressed & demotivated? Reset with me

Health warning! Modern life will get you stressed & demotivated as a side-effect of various situations: The guy you liked disappearing after your date (thanks Tinder) Colleagues/ families/ transport/ so-called friends testing your patience levels …and don’t get me started on…

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Getting stressed? You need to Reset with me

If you are in a dire need for a reset, don’t I have a treat for you! Modern life is pretty much set to wind you up: Women cancelling last minute on that date (via WhatsApp, thanks) Colleagues/ families/ transport/ so-called…

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sexy dress or a hoodie

Do women get approached more in a sexy dress or a hoodie?

If you think she gets approached all the time (whether she’s in a sexy dress or in a hoodie) and won’t want to hear from you this video WILL surprise you. To road test this theory I headed down to…

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changing the clothes

Does changing the clothes change the woman?

I’ve ALWAYS wanted to know if men would react differently if I dressed differently. To find out if changing the clothes changes the women, I did a little social experiment.  I road-tested this theory by dressing in 3 different outfits…

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stand out

How to stand out more to men

Firstly, you don’t need to change your DNA to stand out more to men. Nor your hair colour or dress size for that matter. There is a simple psychological technique that will make men approach you more. Do you want…

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3 signs he’s flirting with you… and you don’t know it

I was out with one of my clients last weekend and one thing really struck me- Men are not flirting how they used to! Think about it: Guys are more cautious about expressing their interest than ever before. Trust me I…

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gift of yoga

A Gift to my Female Followers in London

  I want to give a gift to my female followers in London… Because you are awesome, powerful, women who I admire! As a huge thank you for: Not relying on him/ luck/ cupid to find you. Not giving up…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.