Learn to love dating


Create Space For Him To Chase!

I know every piece of dating advice EVER has told you that men should chase… But if you’re not getting any dates that’s a little hard to implement right? How do you balance creating space for yourself to date? How do…

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your approach failed

The Number 1 Reason Your Approach Failed

The number 1 reason your approach failed is that the woman hasn’t realised why you’re talking to her. Sounds crazy but women don’t always know how attractive they are. Nor do they realise that every time a guy offers to help…

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How to ask a girl out on Facebook

Well, you know what? I wanted to tell you this information because I recently looked at my Facebook messages. I can say I am fed up of all the crummy ways guys have been asking me out. It’s not that…

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best first text

What’s the best first text to send to a girl?

Thank you for joining me for my second week of answering the questions that you sent to me via email. The questions I have today are actually on the subject of texting. So, if you have problems when it comes…

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non-creepy ways

Non-CREEPY ways to APPROACH her

I’m gonna actually runt a bit in this blog and video but I want you to pay attention to it. I want you to know that there is a creepy way of doing things and a non-creepy way of doing…

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nothing in common

Create a deeper connection with women

Now you guys might not know about this, but I have spent an awful lot of time working with guys and girls taking them out into the big wide world, getting them to be better at meeting people. I have…

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How I became a girl into ‘The Game’

I get asked a lot how I wound up being a Dating Expert. Even more so how I ended up being a part of “The Game”. I genuinely thought I was going to end up working in publishing. I even…

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Be Sexier

3 Ways You Can Be Sexier to Her

Feeling sexy is a matter of mindset rather than anything else. You can be sexier just by acknowledging the amazing, sexy parts of you. ATTRACTION TO A WOMAN IS REACTION TO YOU… so you better make sure you’re one hell…

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splitting the bill

Splitting the Bill- Should the Guy ALWAYS Pay the Bill?

  You’ve slung back a few martinis, laughed for hours, and worked out that you’re both huge Dr Who fans. There’s only one thing that can ruin the magic of this moment: and it’s the moment the bartender diplomatically places the…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.