Learn to love dating


Seduction: How To Be Seductive

  Last week I asked my mailing list what they wanted to hear about seduction. I was asked: How do you make her want you?How do you get her from coffee to the bedroom?When do you bring up having an open…

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all curious human beings

Welcome, All Curious Human Beings. A Review of ‘Bi-Curious Me’

Doing a documentary may seem like one long narcissistic binge but I had other motivations for putting my life way out there… I want to share with you why I did Channel 4 Documentary ‘Bi-Curious Me’ & the message I wanted…

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bi-curious me

Bi-Curious Me: Dating Coach Hayley Quinn in Channel 4 documentary

If you’ve ever wondered whether I practice what I preach, and what I get up to when I’m not coaching people (women too) to approach, attract, meet and date more… then you need to check out: Channel 4 Cutting Edge Documentary…

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a modern-day love story

A Modern-Day Love Story

I’m going to tell you a modern-day love story. Move over Shakespeare! Here it goes… (I’m warning you now though, you may have heard it all before).   TRUE STORY I was waiting for the train one morning, and as…

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What’s Your Motivation?

Decisions come our way every day. Some are big (Should I take that job?), and some are small(er) (Should I say ‘hi’ to her?). To decide what’s truly right and best for us, we need to separate what we want from what…

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the grey area

The Grey Area: What if she’s a cheat?

Imagine the scenario in which you wander into the grey area of dating. Here it goes: You see a BEAUTIFUL woman. You approach her, start chatting, and ‘wow!’ she’s super cool too! But… she’s got a boyfriend! Undeterred you suggest a coffee- the…

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she is beautiful

She Is Beautiful: Being Direct About Your Feelings

  I’m going to tell you exactly what happens when you want to tell a woman that she is beautiful. You feel an INSTINCT of ATTRACTION in your gut (it’s the one that makes you DESIRE HER but feels ANXIOUS to…

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the checklist

The Checklist: Fact or Fiction?

The problem with meeting women, I am often told, is that they are poised to reject men before they even get to know them. Guys insist that women will not so much as flash a smile unless they thick of the…

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Out of Bed

What Got Me Out of Bed This Morning

Is that you have a hot date that makes your heartbeat harder? Or are you heading somewhere where you might just meet the girl of your dreams? Would she be the reason that got you out of the bed in…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.