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Speak To A Woman

How To Speak To A Woman During The Daytime

Meeting women at 3 am in a club can be fun, but surely it must be nicer to speak to a woman during the day? There are many ways and places you can meet the women during the day (read…

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alpha male traits

Alpha Male Traits: 4 Mindsets for Success

I wanted to write to you about the idea of being an ‘alpha male’ and having ‘alpha male traits’. I get that pick up has told you that you have to be an ‘alpha male’ 24/7 otherwise she won’t find…

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female dating coach

Ask A Female Dating Coach: How to Pay A Compliment on Valentine’s Day

Now if there’s any day of the year that you might want to give a girl a compliment it’s V Day. Today, in my Ask A Female Dating Coach special blog edition I will answer the often asked question: How…

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Verbalise Don’t Internalise: Live in the Moment

  They flick between making eye contact with you and clocking their watch. What are they trying to tell you? They’re busy? They don’t want to talk to you? Maybe it’s best that you just give up now, and forget it?- It’s…

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your partner

How to pay a compliment to someone without ticking off your partner

  Complimenting other people while in a relationship should never be a cause for anger. If you worry about ticking off your partner when complimenting the looks of others, this could be for two reasons. You are either doing it wrong…

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ice breaker

The World’s Worst Ice Breaker

Yet when we see someone that we want to say ‘hello’ to, inspiration nearly always fails us, and we end up reverting to terrible conversational habits. Let me give you an example. Imagine a time that you wanted to speak to a…

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Six Simple Steps to Sexy Strokes: Touch Women Effectively

  You know that you should be touching her (because how else are you going to signal that a kiss is coming?) but worried about overstepping the mark? Then follow these 6 simple steps to sexy touches. These are the…

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Use Texts to get Dates

How to Use Texts to Get Dates- Don’t Demand a Date Straight Away

When you use texts to get a date, you need to keep in mind that it takes two to tango, or in our case, text! People have busy lives full of competing demands from work, friends, family, and now you…

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Avoid Looking Weird

Five Ways to Avoid Looking Weird

I believe virtually everyone is cool, funny and interesting. So how come some people are labeled as ‘geeks’ and advised to avoid looking weird, whilst other people always get to be ‘awesome’ and ‘popular’? Well, that’s a massive question: and not…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.