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How to pay a compliment to someone without ticking off your partner

  Complimenting other people while in a relationship should never be a cause for anger. If you worry about ticking off your partner when complimenting the looks of others, this could be for two reasons. You are either doing it wrong…

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ice breaker

The World’s Worst Ice Breaker

Yet when we see someone that we want to say ‘hello’ to, inspiration nearly always fails us, and we end up reverting to terrible conversational habits. Let me give you an example. Imagine a time that you wanted to speak to a…

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Six Simple Steps to Sexy Strokes: Touch Women Effectively

  You know that you should be touching her (because how else are you going to signal that a kiss is coming?) but worried about overstepping the mark? Then follow these 6 simple steps to sexy touches. These are the…

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Use Texts to get Dates

How to Use Texts to Get Dates- Don’t Demand a Date Straight Away

When you use texts to get a date, you need to keep in mind that it takes two to tango, or in our case, text! People have busy lives full of competing demands from work, friends, family, and now you…

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Avoid Looking Weird

Five Ways to Avoid Looking Weird

I believe virtually everyone is cool, funny and interesting. So how come some people are labeled as ‘geeks’ and advised to avoid looking weird, whilst other people always get to be ‘awesome’ and ‘popular’? Well, that’s a massive question: and not…

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How to Reveal a Secret Negative as a Pro-Active Positive

  We all carry around some secret that we do not necessarily feel comfortable sharing with everyone. So many times we may start dating someone and feel like we’re not being entirely honest with them. What are you hiding on…

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cold shoulded

Warm Up a Cold Shoulder: How to Handle it When a Woman Ignores You

  In this post, I’m going to be talking you through how to deal with one of the most common, and frustrating, responses a girl can give you: the cold shoulder. Yep, that horrible moment when you’ve made your approach…

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Three Ways to Make Women Want You and Not Your Wallet

It’s Friday night at about 4 am. You’ve wound up in the VIP of a night club, full of beautiful women that are flirting with you. Trouble is you don’t want to date a woman who is more interested in…

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Successfully Set Up a Date

3 Quick Tips to Successfully Set Up a Date

  Ok, so how do you successfully set up a date in London? Just dating on its own can be very stressful and time-consuming is a city such as London. So here are 3 tips to help you make that…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.