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Being Natural with Women

Being Present: The Key to Being Natural with Women

  Being natural with women means never having to run to a script. As much as we’d like to think you can plan the A-Z of how to talk to a woman; we know it’s actually about developing the skills that…

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How to Deal with Flakes (not the cereal variety)

  A girl sends a last-minute ‘my bus was late and now I can’t make it’ message. Maybe she goes AWOL in the days running up to that amazing date you’ve planned. Maybe she is a total no show, leaving…

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London’s Dating Economy

Three Pitfalls of London’s Dating Economy

London’s Dating Economy is a scene like no other. Working full time as a dating coach I should know. I spend my days helping others to meet people and make it my business to understand the mechanics of what happens…

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Three Ways to Avoid Your Date Turning into an Interview

  Did you experience more than once your date turning into an interview? Are you an expert at asking questions, but seem to always run out of the conversation? In fact, does this happen to you once too often:  …

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How to avoid talking about work when you’re on a date

Work is one of those unavoidable first date topics; one minute you’re thinking about how awesome your date is, the next minute you’re accidentally making painful conversation about work deadlines. Here is how to avoid talking about work on your…

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When to send the ‘Let’s grab a drink Friday’ text?

Let’s deal with the ‘when’ to text first and in a later blog, we’ll deal with ‘how’ with 10 texting rules on how to message a woman. Just like interactions during real-life the timing of when you swap from just communicating…

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The Gym Approach

The Gym Approach: How to Say ‘hi’ whilst you’re working out

Looking for an upside to having put on forty pounds, spent all your money and miserable weather? How about trying the gym approach? That’s right, learning to say ‘hi’ to women at the same time as you lift your weights.  Here…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.