Learn to love dating

6 Tips For The BEST First Date Compliment

How do you go about paying a great compliment on a first date? I’m going to give you three do’s and three don’ts of paying compliments on first dates. Use them to get the results you might not have thought…

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too picky

Are you being too picky?

We all know how annoying it is when a well-meaning, (annoying), and probably coupled-up friend offers us this amazing piece of dating advice as to why we’re single… and it always has something too do with us being too picky.…

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4 Easy Tips to Make Her Want To Be Your Girlfriend!

A huge stick point for many guys out there is that they don’t have high enough standards for the women they date. What’s the problem with this? Well, you could end up communicating ‘LIKE ME!’ instead of actually building a…

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He’s Pulling Away? Here’s Why!

If you are in this scenario I’m going to help you out today by giving you a clear explanation of why sometimes guys will come in strong. They will sweep you off your feet, and then start pulling away and…

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5 Tips For Great First Messages On Dating Apps

In this blog I want to share with you five strategies on how you can get more responses to your messages and help them to really stand out in her inbox. I know how frustrating it can be if you…

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mixed signals

Hot and Cold- This is How To Reply to His Mixed Signals!

Today I want to teach you how to respond to these common (and annoying!) ‘mixed signals’ messages men send.  The kind where you’re not sure if he’s pulling away, and that generally leaving you stumped as to what to say…

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personal quality

Use This Conversation Hack To Connect With Her

One of my favourite phrases for conversation skills is: ‘How someone is in one thing, they are in everything’. This means if you can identify how they view themselves, or one of their personal quality, or something that characterises themselves…

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flirty messages

3 Flirty Messages to Send to Her

You might have been wondering how to flirt with her. How can you communicate that you’re the kind of guy she should see as a boyfriend? I can understand why flirtation doesn’t always feel easy. In the modern age, it…

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Commitment Phobes

How to Avoid Commitment Phobes?

If you’ve been wondering why he feels guilty when he dates you; the chances are it has nothing to do with infidelity, instead he might be a commitment phobe. I know that you’re not responsible for somebody else’s feelings but…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.