Don’t be super ALPHA be yourself
Posted on June 22, 2015 by Hayley Quinn - Blog, Men Blog
I had the pleasure for talking to the Saturday Sarge (a group of guys who get together to practice meeting women) last month and I wanted to share my talk with you because…
1. I need you to know you don’t have to be ‘super Alpha’ to get the girl.
2. Some guys asked *amazing* questions that I’m sure you’ll relate to so please listen to the end 🙂
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Hayley Quinn is an internationally recognised dating coach and founder of the UK’s largest dating coaching company. She has over 2 Million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers.
She is the spokesperson for Match, the biggest online dating platform in the world. She has been featured on BBC1, Sky and Channel 4 and is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan and a contributor to yahoo!style.
Her first fiction book “The Last First Date” has been published by Harper Collins and her non-fiction book “Do This Not That” (Simon & Schuster) is due for publication in early 2023.
Her goal is to bridge the gap with modern dating and help inspire people to learn to love dating.