How to make love like a porn star

Lovemaking and porn

 

And welcome back to another episode of Attraction HQ. I’m gonna get you to approach love, sex, dating, and relationships from a slightly different angle. And oh my God, I’ve got such a treat for you today. The treat is not me because I have a really bad cold so I am sounding husky. I don’t even sound sexy with it. I’ve got a sexy lady and a cool lady. With me today is a lovely Alia Janine. Alia is a former porn star turned to the comedian who was also a podcaster. And I thought, well, this is great because I know that you guys have recently been subjected to listening to my 95-year-old nan give dating advice on us. So I thought I treat you to a piece of advice on how to make love like a porn star.

 

The interview

 

Hayley

I wanted to ask about the difference between porn sex, and real sex. As you probably know, there’s loads of talk about a bunch of men, and about how porn is affecting our views on how sex actually goes down. There is a very big difference between porn, sex, and real sex.

 

Alia

For one, porn sex can last about six, seven hours, depending on who you are shooting with. Real sex- not so long. They put us in particular positions, and it’s all to be opened up to the camera, it’s all about angles.

A lot of times when you see girls masturbating themselves while they’re having intercourse, that’s what they get off. Because of the positions that we’re in, it’s very difficult. And a lot of times, it takes a lot longer for women to orgasm as well. You got to be able to work it in there. And if you have a good partner that day, they will also help you tremendously. Sometimes not so much. It depends, really, but a lot of the important guys, really love women, and that’s what they want to do. They want to make sure you get off.

There was one scene that I did where it was a hardcore kink scene, and there was really no time in the scene for me to actually orgasm. It was with Mark Davis. And so he just ate me out when we weren’t filming to make sure I did.

 

Hayley

What a great guy. I have to say that’s always the mark of one. I think this is gonna be an awesome guy if his first sexual act is giving me head. I’m like, I love you forever. If there’s one thing that will convince me to have sex with somebody if I’m borderline about it its that.

 

Alia

Yeah, no, that’s great indication because some guys don’t. And then porn- they actually make sure with certain companies, that the guy does eat the girl out at the beginning of the scene. It’s a very give-take kind of thing. Not America is a good company. For that example, we call it corporate porn. Because they give us certain positions that we have to do and stuff like that. It’s like- you eat her, blowjob.

 

Hayley

So tell me like this six, seven-hour day. That’s a lot of stamina.

 

Alia

We’ll start with hair and makeup. And then we’ll do the pretty girl pictures, which is just me by myself. Then we’ll do like the hardcore pictures. And they’re still pictures. So when we are having sex, there’s a lot of stopping. They are trying to take pictures so it’s basically just to keep his dick hard enough for the pictures. We’ll do like end scene- the cum shot. Sometimes depending on what type of scene it is before we actually even have sex because some companies don’t want us to fuck really hard ruin our makeup. It depends on the company. Sometimes they don’t give a shit. So then we’ll do that. And then we have to take a break. Because they have to switch the lighting from photo lighting to video lighting, which is two completely different types of lighting. I’ll do makeup touch-ups. And in that time, like the guy is basically just trying to keep his dick hard.

 

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