Learn to love dating

6 Tips For The BEST First Date Compliment

How do you go about paying a great compliment on a first date? I’m going to give you three do’s and three don’ts of paying compliments on first dates. Use them to get the results you might not have thought…

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4 Easy Tips to Make Her Want To Be Your Girlfriend!

A huge stick point for many guys out there is that they don’t have high enough standards for the women they date. What’s the problem with this? Well, you could end up communicating ‘LIKE ME!’ instead of actually building a…

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5 Tips For Great First Messages On Dating Apps

In this blog I want to share with you five strategies on how you can get more responses to your messages and help them to really stand out in her inbox. I know how frustrating it can be if you…

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Use This Conversation Hack To Connect With Her

One of my favourite phrases for conversation skills is: ‘How someone is in one thing, they are in everything’. This means if you can identify how they view themselves, or one of their personal quality, or something that characterises themselves…

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3 Flirty Messages to Send to Her

You might have been wondering how to flirt with her. How can you communicate that you’re the kind of guy she should see as a boyfriend? I can understand why flirtation doesn’t always feel easy. In the modern age, it…

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How To Really Listen To Her

  If you know how to effectively listen, this will make all the difference in how easy you find conversations, and how well you connect with her. I know it doesn’t sound sexy, but listening can be a secret to…

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How To Be A Great Storyteller!

One of the biggest fears with dating is running out of conversation. A great way to never worry about running out of conversation is to become a far better storyteller. If you have a pause in the conversation, guess what?…

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3 Messages To Send a Woman That Has NO BIO on a Dating App

It can be very annoying when you see a woman online you like, and she has no bio! It gives you nothing to work with and can make thinking of what would be a great first message to send her…

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The Dating Strategy You Need To Attract Her

In my last blog I spoke to you about how to attract high quality women. How do I know what works with women like these? I coach them.  Yep, the women I work with are a long way away from being…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.