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How To Be Confident With Women

“I want to know how to be confident with women.“ I hear this phrase a lot. If you’re not meeting the women you want right now if you hesitate before saying hello to her, if you want to let her…

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Where have all the good men gone?

Where Have All The Good Men Gone? How To Meet Guys

The truth, of course, is that where have all the good men gone isn’t the question you should be asking. As much as it would be nice if all the ‘good’ (and I guess by this we mean single, honest,…

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Is it still okay for men to approach women?

In an era of Weinstein, street harassment and #TimesUp – is the writing on the wall for the ‘art of pulling’ (please note the use of inverted commas there…)? Is it still okay, was it ever okay, for men to…

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How to flirt with a woman you like (in a non-awkward – non-creepy way)

by Academy dating coach Jack This is a question I started to ask myself when I realised it was no longer appropriate to play spin the bottle as an adult as a substitute for not knowing how to build sexual…

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Hayley Quinn

Fears and feelings men get when they see an attractive woman

First I would like to introduce myself. My name is Reggie Wade, and I am a writer and social content editor from Brooklyn, New York. I have had the pleasure of knowing Hayley for a little while now, and I…

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Personal Kindness

Personal Kindness: Your Motivation to Approach Women

Sometimes getting out of bed in the morning can be tough- let alone motivating yourself to approach women and try to get their number. Yet how often do we forget to praise ourselves for putting one foot in front of…

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Hayley Quinn


Hayley is the UKs leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subsribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. She is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News, to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.