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lockdown is over

So now that lockdown is over, can you suggest meeting up in person?

  Asking someone to meet in person after lockdown, might seem a bit like a taboo subject, which is why I partnered up with Match to give you modern advice on how to approach this!    The tips that I…

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Can you ask someone for commitment during a lockdown?

  Lockdown has changed a lot for dating and relationships, which is why we created a series of mini-video advice with Match to help you create something real, even during these unusual times!    So, let’s talk about that big…

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getting him to say yes

Be The Sun Not The Wind: Getting Him To Say Yes

Ok. He doesn’t want to move in together. He feels uncomfortable calling you his ‘girlfriend’. You want him to acknowledge your needs and wants. So is getting him to say yes impossible?  There are often some key milestones in building your…

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Ready To Date

How To Know You’re Ready To Date?

If you’re reading this, I’m guessing you’re somewhat interested in starting to date and wondering if you are ready to date. However, a HUGE problem that I hear time and time again is that dating can feel like a chore. …

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how to be single

How to be Single and Empowered in 7 steps

Today I wanted to talk to you about HOW to be single because I vividly remember 2 versions of being single: (Appreciate this is both the title of a funny movie and that by now you may feel like you…

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How To Message A Woman - 10 Texting Rules of Thumb To Keep Her Interested

10 Texting Rules On How To Message A Woman

Here are some quick-fire tips on how to message a woman, to save you making any rookie errors (or alternately, just wasting your valuable time) If you’re struggling to hold her interest chances are this has something to do with your…

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how to be alone

A Beginner’s Guide To How To Be Alone

I didn’t use to know how to be alone: the thought of going somewhere by myself made me feel like a loser. So I spent time with people whom I only had a paper-thin connection to. I can’t even remember…

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Where have all the good men gone?

Where Have All The Good Men Gone? How To Meet Guys

The truth, of course, is that where have all the good men gone isn’t the question you should be asking. As much as it would be nice if all the ‘good’ (and I guess by this we mean single, honest,…

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how important are looks to women

How Important Are Looks To Women?

  There are few worse feelings than those of inadequacy. You feel like you don’t fit in like you’re not what society deems to be attractive. This is why I want to talk to you about how important are looks…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.