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Women Have High Expectations of Dating – So Should You

You may feel right now that women have sky-high expectations of dating. From my work coaching thousands of men and women as a London dating coach, I’m not going to disagree. Yes, I regularly meet women who – Believe men…

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How to flirt with a woman you like (in a non-awkward, non-creepy way)

by Academy dating coach Jack This is a question I started to ask myself when I realised it was no longer appropriate to play spin the bottle as an adult as a substitute for not knowing how to build sexual…

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Top 3 Dating Problems Women Face

I know you must think some days, ‘Why am I having to learn about how to approach women, date women, talk to women, and they have it super easy…’ it is easy to think that the dating problems women have…

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The perfect text to send after your first date

Here is a perfect text to send after your date… especially if you didn’t kiss her You’ve had a great date with a girl you think is really cool but you kind of wish you’d asked her to stay for…

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Going Renegade Bootcamp

Going Renegade- Exciting news… In this blog, I want to explain the good reason behind my decision to organise Going Renegade Bootcamp! Firstly, know I’ve long felt that women’s dating being confined to: If you like him, ignore him.  Wait for…

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What if we treated cocaine like love?

  I have a theory that we all get a bit ‘cracked out’ on love. And not even the ‘good stuff’ usually it’s the really bleak, toxic, unhealthy love that gets us all strung out. It’s a cocaine-like love. The…

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Can your relationship survive the long-distance?

When it comes to long-distance dating, one of the most useful phrases I’ve ever learned about relationships is: Desire always overcomes logistics.  This means ‘if there’s a will there’s a way’. If you want to make your long-distance relationship work…

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Does changing the clothes change the woman?

  I’ve ALWAYS wanted to know if men would react differently if I dressed differently. To find out if changing the clothes changes the women, I did a little social experiment.  I road-tested this theory by dressing in 3 different…

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a modern-day love story

A Modern-Day Love Story

I’m going to tell you a modern-day love story. Move over Shakespeare! Here it goes… (I’m warning you now though, you may have heard it all before).   TRUE STORY I was waiting for the train one morning, and as…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.