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Sexual Confidence – The Secret To Feeling More Confident With Women

  If you want to be confident with women when it comes to approaching and dating them there is definitely a big component of that… Sexual Confidence! Sexual confidence is about walking into a room radiating masculine energy.  In this post, I want to…

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Standards That You Need To Have In A Girlfriend

Here’s a funny difference in the dating advice men and women get: women are spoken to A LOT about standards i.e. how a man should be treating them. Men’s dating advice – nada. It’s like the outcome of whether you manage…

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Dating After #MeToo

  I don’t know if there was a time when dating was simple. And if it was I imagine a caveman with a cavewoman slung over his shoulder. This is not an image to idealize. How to date after #metoo…

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Women Have High Expectations of Dating – So Should You

You may feel right now that women have sky-high expectations of dating. From my work coaching thousands of men and women as a London dating coach, I’m not going to disagree. Yes, I regularly meet women who – Believe men…

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How To Message A Woman - 10 Texting Rules of Thumb To Keep Her Interested

10 Texting Rules On How To Message A Woman

Here are some quick-fire tips on how to message a woman, to save you making any rookie errors (or alternately, just wasting your valuable time) If you’re struggling to hold her interest chances are this has something to do with your…

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Why You Need to Ditch the Dating Drama

You need to ditch dating drama not because you may ‘scare them off’ (though that might happen too). But because you have bigger goals that need your time, energy and dedication. After years of, on some strange level, enjoying narrating…

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Why does he act like he wants to see you again and then disappears

Why does he act like he wants to see you again and then disappears?

You have a great date (or two) and he seems so into you…He makes loving remarks, mentions future plans, and comes on STRONG. You were even taken aback by how certain he seemed to be. When you met you felt…

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How to get a woman to invest in dating you

Knowing how to get a woman to invest in dating you is essential to creating attraction. You know that feeling of annoyance, “well I spoke to her for 5 minutes and got her number, and now she hasn’t replied to…

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How To Be Confident With Women

“I want to know how to be confident with women.“ I hear this phrase a lot. If you’re not meeting the women you want right now if you hesitate before saying hello to her, if you want to let her…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.