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Is it still okay for men to approach women?

In an era of Weinstein, street harassment and #TimesUp – is the writing on the wall for the ‘art of pulling’ (please note the use of inverted commas there…)? Is it still okay, was it ever okay, for men to…

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How to meet more men in real life?

How to meet more men in real life is something that you may of often be thinking as you’re sitting through a lacklustre tinder date. Especially with a man who is slurring his way through a humble brag about knowing the…

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Real Women Talk About Hookups

Real Women Talk About Hookups – I interview women about casual sex

Real women talk about hookups –I wanted to write you a blog about how women approach casual sex. I think there’s one big myth that messes up a lot of dating interactions and that is: women want relationships, men want…

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Date Like a Farmer not a Hunter

This isn’t a call for you to suddenly go Vegan. It’s about adopting a powerful mindset that will help you to navigate the dating wilderness. So here’s the thing most people (not just women) enter into dating like they are…

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Don’t Please Him, Please Yourself

I am a woman who doesn’t go in for man pleasing in ANY FORM. I am not a fan of: Wearing clothes I don’t like because he finds them visually stimulating. I’m sorry but stilettos are in no way practical…

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How to Avoid Christian Grey this Valentine’s Day

Swarms of men and women will be going to the cinemas as 50 Shades of Grey goes on general release. And there’s no doubt that men will think that the ‘treat them mean, keep them keen’ approach is best when…

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5 reasons to be happily single this Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day has sprung up again. Just when you thought you were too cold/ too broke to feel anymore dreary suddenly there are reminders everywhere about love, and romance. V Day is like an instagram account for love: heavily filtered…

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You slept with him on the first date, now he’s cooled off

Sometimes sex happens fast and rampantly. Usually, this is actually quite a nice surprise compared to slow and tentative/ ‘might as well because we’re here now’/ ‘boy that was awkward’ situation. But, I can understand that you might start panicking…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.