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How To Flirt Without Being Creepy

How to flirt without being creepy is possibly the biggest mental barrier for men to overcome when they want to approach a woman. Men and women are full of passion and desire, they want to love people and they want…

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How to flirt with a woman you like (in a non-awkward, non-creepy way)

by Academy dating coach Jack This is a question I started to ask myself when I realised it was no longer appropriate to play spin the bottle as an adult as a substitute for not knowing how to build sexual…

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sexual intent

How to show sincere sexual intent towards your date

Women (especially in cosmopolitan cities) will be used to going on a date or two. This means they’re going pro at presenting their best date self whilst being inwardly bored. I wanted to share with you a quick idea about how…

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Feminist dating

Could a feminist dating coach transform your love-life?

So what does it mean to flirt with balls? I sat down on the Metro‘s couch to have a quick chat about my New Love Philosophy and how it is changing the face of dating. Yes, it involves women saying ‘hi’ men,…

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Is he performing for you? (not a sex blog!)

I bet you’ve noticed that guys aren’t quite flirting the way they used to. In fact sometimes when a guy is into you it’s down right inscrutable. From all the many men I’ve spoken to about dating though I can…

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When to send the ‘Let’s grab a drink Friday’ text?

Let’s deal with the ‘when’ to text first and in a later blog, we’ll deal with ‘how’ with 10 texting rules on how to message a woman. Just like interactions during real-life the timing of when you swap from just communicating…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.