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Standards That You Need To Have In A Girlfriend

Here’s a funny difference in the dating advice men and women get: women are spoken to A LOT about standards i.e. how a man should be treating them. Men’s dating advice – nada. It’s like the outcome of whether you manage…

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How to approach a woman in a coffee shop

Jack here from the Hayley Quinn Coaching Team… How to approach a woman in a coffee shop is a really useful skill – for whatever reason, attractive women seem to congregate in trendy coffee shops. Now you have an opportunity…

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How to get a woman to invest in dating you

Knowing how to get a woman to invest in dating you is essential to creating attraction. You know that feeling of annoyance, “well I spoke to her for 5 minutes and got her number, and now she hasn’t replied to…

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How To Be Confident With Women

“I want to know how to be confident with women.“ I hear this phrase a lot. If you’re not meeting the women you want right now if you hesitate before saying hello to her, if you want to let her…

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Is it still okay for men to approach women?

In an era of Weinstein, street harassment and #TimesUp – is the writing on the wall for the ‘art of pulling’ (please note the use of inverted commas there…)? Is it still okay, was it ever okay, for men to…

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From Brooklyn to the Academy

Hi, my name is Reggie Wade. I’m nearly 31 years old, and I come from Brooklyn to do Academy. I’ve had trouble meeting the cool, down-to-earth woman I would like to share my life with. In fact, I’ve never had…

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Why are you always in the Friendzone?

The Friendzone is the notorious NO PHYSICAL TOUCH trap of many a great guy who becomes stuck as Mr ‘ let’s catch up for a coffee!’ or ‘sure we can do a group thing…’ The Friendzone is particularly painful because…

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How to Have a Threesome with Your Girlfriend

I’m not going to spend ages telling you tricks to convince your girlfriend to have a threesome, for two best friends to come to bed with you, or how to make a woman complicit to doing something she doesn’t want…

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Hayley Quinn


Hayley is the UKs leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subsribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. She is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News, to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.