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pick up artists

Does advice from pick-up artists work for women?

I know you have an idea in your mind about pick up artists. They’re scummy, misogynists who probably know a card trick or two. Now I am not here to condone many aspects of the pick-up artist community. There are definitely…

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pick up artists

Are Pick-Up Artists Good or Sort Of Evil?

The world of pick-up artists has long fascinated me. I imagine if you’re reading this blog it’s got your curiosity too. Can you really make someone attracted to you? And even if you can, should you? Isn’t that super manipulative?!…

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respond to a no

How to respond to a ‘No’

Summertime is when everyone is in a great mood… and guess what? Flirtation is occurring! You all know that I am a big fan of flirtation, but there’s a way to do it that is ethical, respectful and sexy. Even…

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love during the Blitz and the War

What was love like during the Blitz and the War

In this very special podcast episode I had the best guest ever!  You’re going to learn so much.  And this is a crazy idea I cooked up on the train down to Cornwall, where I’m from, for Christmas.  And that…

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more impact

Have more impact on your dates

I had a female client who is lovely, radiant, smart, had her life together but… she would never get to date number 2 or would find that consistently, guys who took her number would never call.  So, I realized that…

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being an alpha male

You don’t have to conform to being an ‘alpha male’

Conventional dating advice teaches men how to approach the girl, how to be sexier. Or how to appear more attractive to women. Today I want to talk to you about feeling attractive in yourself.  Truth is, I’m often aggravated by…

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internet dating

Will Internet Dating Work for you?

If you’re a single guy, is internet dating a gold mine of potential dates? Or a waste of time where your efforts won’t be rewarded? As a dating coach, I have experienced internet dating as probably one of the most…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.