Learn to love dating


How to flirt with a woman you like (in a non-awkward, non-creepy way)

by Academy dating coach Jack This is a question I started to ask myself when I realised it was no longer appropriate to play spin the bottle as an adult as a substitute for not knowing how to build sexual…

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Top 3 Dating Problems Women Face

I know you must think some days, ‘Why am I having to learn about how to approach women, date women, talk to women, and they have it super easy…’ it is easy to think that the dating problems women have…

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Does advice from pick-up artists work for women?

I know you have an idea in your mind about pick up artists. They’re scummy, misogynists who probably know a card trick or two. Now I am not here to condone many aspects of the pick-up artist community. There are definitely…

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Are you a ‘wife material’?

A quick google informs me that ‘wife material’ is someone who: ‘Can cook, and cook well, like French pastry-chef-type well’ (Fox News, natch) ‘Back massage…men love a woman who can help them relax’ (Matthew Hussey – Get The Guy) ‘Not one…

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Feminist dating

Could a feminist dating coach transform your love-life?

So what does it mean to flirt with balls? I sat down on the Metro‘s couch to have a quick chat about my New Love Philosophy and how it is changing the face of dating. Yes, it involves women saying ‘hi’ men,…

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HQ Academy Training Programme

Hayley Quinn HQ Academy Training Programme

Alan won a golden ticket to my HQ Academy Training Programme. Here he tells us about his history with women & what he hopes to achieve going forward with HQ Academy. ******************* Over the last ten years, I have become a…

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He hasn’t text in a few days

  In terms of day to day stress, nothing beats meeting a great guy, having some great dates, and then him spectacularly disappearing. And you are left thinking, ‘Okay he hasn’t text in a few days, what should I do?’…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.