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what to wear on a date

What to wear on a date: the psychology of men’s fashion

I’m fashion consultant Ollie Pearce and I want to make sure you know what to wear on a date. The night of the big date and all the effort of the painstaking chase seems to have finally paid off. She…

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HQ Academy Training Programme

Hayley Quinn HQ Academy Training Programme

Alan won a golden ticket to my HQ Academy Training Programme. Here he tells us about his history with women & what he hopes to achieve going forward with HQ Academy. ******************* Over the last ten years, I have become a…

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men's field study

Men’s Field Study is HERE

I am so excited to share with you the announcement of my first ever men’s live training- FIELD STUDY! Spaces are limited to 9 attendees on a first-come, first-serve basis. Book your place on the front line and join the first-ever…

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making the first move

Making The First Move (With Low Risk Of Failure)

Today I want to talk to you about making the first move in a way that’s low risk and actually works really, really well. Because I know that you might be meeting a girl out in the club or on the street…

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if she says Hayley Quinn

If she says ‘bless you’ or ‘awww’

Whilst it may have been hot during the 13th Century for women to ‘pity’ the knights that came slaying dragons for them, these days if she associates you with something that needs sympathy she ain’t ever going to want to…

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don't drink alcohol

How to explain you don’t drink alcohol

When it comes to explaining that you don’t drink alcohol, follow the words of Kate Moss ‘never justify, never explain’. You may think that not drinking is a social faux pas, and awkward to introduce. However, the truth is that…

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out of your league

You may think she’s out of your league but…

She’s not! And I’m going to tell you why she is NOT out of your league. First of all (and this bit is important), you have to see you like the top of your own league: divvying yourself up against other people…

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dating lifestyle

10 SIMPLE Steps to Creating a Dating Lifestyle

There are always a million reasons why we can decide not to do something. In case you hadn’t noticed, it is WAY easier to ignore what you want to do, and do the easy thing instead. Even if it means…

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Getting Back Into Dating

Top 5 Tips When Getting Back Into Dating

My good friends at FREE online dating site Singles Warehouse dropped me a line with their Top 5 Tips for Getting Back Into Dating. I’ve also added some of my own suggestions. Hopefully, you’ll get a double whammy of tips…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.