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Why you have to date the Nice Guy

At the risk of sounding like your mother, I am going to make a strong case for why you have to date the Nice Guy. Not should. Not ‘give them a try’. Have. To. Date. The Nice Guy. It isn’t…

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Date Like a Farmer not a Hunter

This isn’t a call for you to suddenly go Vegan. It’s about adopting a powerful mindset that will help you to navigate the dating wilderness. So here’s the thing most people (not just women) enter into dating like they are…

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Don’t Please Him, Please Yourself

I am a woman who doesn’t go in for man pleasing in ANY FORM. I am not a fan of: Wearing clothes I don’t like because he finds them visually stimulating. I’m sorry but stilettos are in no way practical…

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How to Avoid Christian Grey this Valentine’s Day

Swarms of men and women will be going to the cinemas as 50 Shades of Grey goes on general release. And there’s no doubt that men will think that the ‘treat them mean, keep them keen’ approach is best when…

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5 reasons to be happily single this Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day has sprung up again. Just when you thought you were too cold/ too broke to feel anymore dreary suddenly there are reminders everywhere about love, and romance. V Day is like an instagram account for love: heavily filtered…

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You slept with him on the first date, now he’s cooled off

Sometimes sex happens fast and rampantly. Usually, this is actually quite a nice surprise compared to slow and tentative/ ‘might as well because we’re here now’/ ‘boy that was awkward’ situation. But, I can understand that you might start panicking…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.