Learn to love dating

Is being too judgemental getting in your way? Inspireland podcast

This morning I had the great pleasure of being interviewed for the Inspireland Podcast. I cover a lot of dating topics including: * How being too closed minded can stop you meeting the right guy. * What is a ‘pick…

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Why that one perfect line never works twice: Inspireland Podcast

This morning I had the great pleasure of being interviewed for the Inspireland Podcast. I cover a lot of dating topics including: * How the language you use can stop you approaching women (& I’m not talking swear words) *…

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She Wants to be Swept Off Her Feet

Walt Disney has a lot to answer for and for me one of his top crimes is conditioning people to have seriously unrealistic romantic expectations. If you’ve ever wondered why… Being a nice guy doesn’t work. Letting her decide doesn’t…

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How to avoid pouty girls in nightclubs

Do you HATE nightclubs? If so you are not alone… and aside from the loud music, overpriced drinks and grumpy door staff, girls can be so unfriendly. Like beyond unfriendly. Like SNOOTY, POUTY AND STRAIGHT UP MEAN. I want you…

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How ‘50 Shades of Grey’ can help your dating life

As 50 Shades of Grey hits the theatres over Valentine’s weekend, tons of people have their opinions on the film. But whether you love it or you hate it, there is something to be said about attraction and lust… and…

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Learning to Farm and Not Hunt out Your Dates

This isn’t a call for you to suddenly go Vegan. It’s about adopting a powerful mindset that will help you to navigate the dating wilderness. So here’s the thing most people (not just men) enter into dating like they are…

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How to handle it when she always cancels

Girls (or women rather) can be bloody annoying. When she doesn’t get back to you for ages about meeting up. When she does it is a decidedly ‘flakey’ excuse. When she arranges a one hour window of her time when…

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What can ‘Kingsman’ teach us about picking up girls in clubs?

WARNING: MILD SPOILERS What a surprise, I was watching Kingsman at the cinema last night and alongside jumping out of aeroplanes, they also had a pick-up challenge. Can you believe it?! Interestingly the scene with three different characters competing for…

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Comfortable Conversation

Comfortable Conversation: It’s between two but it starts with you

Every date you went on would end with you feeling like you just connected to someone with fun, sincerity and meaning. You will be enjoying a cup of comfortable conversation and feel relaxed in each other’s presence.  But if you…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.