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5 Reasons You’re Still Single

This is not a blog about this. It is not a blog giving you the ill-thought-out advice that ‘you’re too in your masculine’ or ‘you just need to be yourself’. That’s a lazy, shorthand answer for the elephant in the…

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how do I get him to commit

How Do I Get Him To Commit?

If you have just stumbled across this article, before you move on I have a few things I really need to say to you. I know right now you may be feeling confused by endlessly mixed signals, vague promises, and…

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ditch the dating drama

Why You Need to Ditch the Dating Drama

You need to ditch dating drama not because you may ‘scare them off’ (though that might happen too). But because you have bigger goals that need your time, energy and dedication. After years of, on some strange level, enjoying narrating…

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How to Get Over Your Ex – You Do NOT Still Love Him

You don’t like to admit it: but you feel like you still love him. It’s time for you to learn how to get over your ex! You do a double-take in the street, look for hints of him in other…

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get your ex girlfriend back

How to get your ex-girlfriend back

by Academy coach Jack How to get your ex-girlfriend back is a thought that maybe running through your head. Especially when the abrasive girl at the club who you’re not that into says, “Look I think you’re cute, but I’m just…

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Dating apps

Dating Apps: Ruining Love or Enabling Equality?

I rarely ask this but I need your help; I want to talk about whether dating apps are ruining love or enabling equality at SXSW and every vote counts: VOTE HERE Why should you care about dating apps, and equality,…

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Signs he’s a good guy

Signs he’s a good guy – top 5 ‘honest signals’

“Honest signals” are signs that he’s a ‘good guy’ that are hard to fake. I always feel uncomfortable writing blogs like these because I don’t want you to be starting to think about dating with the assumption ‘men are all…

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Why you have to date the Nice Guy

At the risk of sounding like your mother, I am going to make a strong case for why you have to date the Nice Guy. Not should. Not ‘give them a try’. Have. To. Date. The Nice Guy. It isn’t…

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Is being too judgemental getting in your way? Inspireland podcast

This morning I had the great pleasure of being interviewed for the Inspireland Podcast. I cover a lot of dating topics including: * How being too closed minded can stop you meeting the right guy. * What is a ‘pick…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.