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lockdown is over

So now that lockdown is over, can you suggest meeting up in person?

  Asking someone to meet in person after lockdown, might seem a bit like a taboo subject, which is why I partnered up with Match to give you modern advice on how to approach this!    The tips that I…

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Can you ask someone for commitment during a lockdown?

  Lockdown has changed a lot for dating and relationships, which is why we created a series of mini-video advice with Match to help you create something real, even during these unusual times!    So, let’s talk about that big…

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getting him to say yes

Be The Sun Not The Wind: Getting Him To Say Yes

  Ok. He doesn’t want to move in together. He feels uncomfortable calling you his ‘girlfriend’. You want him to acknowledge your needs and wants. So is getting him to say yes impossible?    There are often some key milestones in…

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Ready To Date

How To Know You’re Ready To Date?

If you’re reading this, I’m guessing you’re somewhat interested in starting to date and wondering if you are ready to date. However, a HUGE problem that I hear time and time again is that dating can feel like a chore. …

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how to be single

How to be Single and Empowered in 7 steps

Today I wanted to talk to you about HOW to be single because I vividly remember 2 versions of being single: (Appreciate this is both the title of a funny movie and that by now you may feel like you…

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be feminine, be powerful Hayley Quinn dating coach

Should You Be More Feminine To Attract Men?

I find women’s dating advice that talks about blocked chakras, or needing to be ‘more in your feminine energy’. A little restrictive (who is to say what is and isn’t feminine?) and not all that helpful (so you need more…

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happy by yourself

‘You need to be happy by yourself first’ is a lie

Well YES but then also NO, you do not need to happy by yourself first. Of course, you should love your company, of course, you should have your own stuff going on, of course being single you should have A LIFE. But…

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going renegade

Going Renegade Bootcamp

Going Renegade- Exciting news… In this blog, I want to explain the good reason behind my decision to organise Going Renegade Bootcamp! Firstly, know I’ve long felt that women’s dating being confined to: If you like him, ignore him.  Wait for…

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The sign he’s controlling you that you won’t recognise

Controlling relationships are unhealthy ones. No relationship is perfect. Most of them require a lot of heart and a lot of work. But there are some that are worth exiting full stop. The kind of circumstances that gradually pull you…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.