Learn to love dating


The art of settling: failure or the ultimate hallmark of a good relationship?

  I’m a queen of settling and I no longer see it as this dirty word. I hear so many people saying they will never settle. It’s become the battle cry as a single person who’s come out a bad interaction.…

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Ditch the Chase Games: Here’s What Really Attracts Men

Ignore him and he’ll be more into you! Let him chase you! There’s quite a bit of dark dating advice out there which suggests if you can play the chase games with guys, then you can make them more attracted…

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Power Play In Dating

Earlier this week I was a guest one The Emma Guns Podcast where Emma and I discussed the power play in dating. We talked about the rules such as you shouldn’t text for x amount of time and all that…

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the spark

The Spark and How to Find Lasting Love

This week on Keeping it Real: Conversations with Jillian Michaels I talk about the ever discussed SPARK. What is it? Is it important? And if it is- why? And finally how could you make sure that a momentary spark becomes…

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Love Being Alone

20 Things To Love About Being Alone!

  This month I’ve been honoured to be co-hosting the Jillian Michael’s podcast (if you don’t know her she has abs of steel, and is a legend within the fitness industry). We talked about crazy relationships and finding a way…

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Emotionally Unavailable Men

Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men? What YOU Need To Change

  We’ve all spent an afternoon googling, ‘signs he’s a narcissist,’ and, ‘why do I emotionally unavailable men’. You’ve told friends your love life is ‘crazy’ and you’ve shrugged, ‘you couldn’t make this stuff up’. But here is where I need you…

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dating photos

Not Matching With The Men You Want Online? Let’s Talk Dating Photos

What do you associate with online dating? Frustration? Lack of motivation? An emotionally draining experience? Feeling you are not matching with any men you might like? Thinking online dating might not be for you? And how about your dating photos? We…

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What Message To Send To A Guy You Want Back 

  So what message do you send to an ex-boyfriend who’s always on your mind? Or the guy who was always a bit uncertain about commitment, then eventually disappeared? The short answer is – you do not message this guy! But before…

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first message

First message to send to a guy: online dating

Before I even get on to WHAT first message to send to a guy online… the question you may be facing is, ‘should I be making the first move at all?’  I get it – there’s a strong argument here…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.