Learn to love dating

How Does Your Age Affect Your Dating Life as a Woman?

So how does your age impact your dating life as a woman? One of the “joys” of being a woman is being subject to more social scrutiny about our age: Just think about being “filtered out” by potential matches on…

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Get Him To See You As a Date

Get Him To See You As a Date!

Maybe you have no shortage of social confidence, and can meet men in real life easily, but those interactions never translate into dates: he just ends up seeing you as a friend or a social acquaintance.  In this blog I’m…

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Do you Intimidate Men... Or is something else going on?

Do you Intimidate Men… Or is something else going on?

“I intimidate men” If you feel that the core issue with your dating life is that men are intimidated by you, this blog is for you.  As a dating coach I have a problem with most “catch all” explanations for…

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Worrying About What To Message Him? Stop Right There

Worrying About What To Message Him? Stop Right There

Stop worrying about what to message him? Is that possible? No more typing it out, then deleting it? Or (worse) sending then deleting that WhatsApp message to him? No more anxiety over him reading the message but not responding? Those…

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Start Living Your Life Like a Romcom: Mastering the "Meet Cute"

Start Living Your Life Like a Romcom: Mastering the “Meet Cute”

Wouldn’t it be nice if your dating life was a little bit more like a romcom? More “meet cutes” in quaint coffee shops, and less disappointing dates on dating apps?  Now, online dating can be great, but if you’re a…

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He's Not Asking For Your Number? Try THIS Instagram Hack!

He’s Not Asking For Your Number? Try THIS Instagram Hack!

Even worse if you spend all evening talking to said hot guy and you part ways with an awkward: “…Well it was nice talking to you!” and you wind up thinking, ‘what was all that about?   As meeting hot…

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Hayley Quinn sat on a park bench

Why Aren’t You Meeting Him? Remove this Dating Block Today!

I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking “Hayley, no, there’s not. Believe me, I’ve looked!” It’s time to remove this dating block! Ok, maybe your belief goes even deeper than that. Maybe you’re thinking: After a certain age, it’s a well-known…

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Intuition Hack: Get the Guy you Want to Approach You!

We all heard this sentence. But is there any truth to it? Well, yes and no. Yes in that, yes, when he’s in the right space to form a partnership, and he sees your value, he will be making steps…

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Hating Dating? It’s Time To Change Your Mindset

So what should you message him back? What’s the perfect flirty line to say to him? These dating tips may feel important at the time, but trust me, they are nowhere near as important for your success as mindset. When…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.