all the wrong places

Looking in all the wrong places?

Are you looking for men in all the wrong places?

Here’s a classic example I thought I’d share with you:

I was working with one of my client’s earlier this year. She told me about how much she longed for a guy to spend nights in. Someone to eat pasta with and watch Netflix on the weekends.

(sounds nice!)

I asked her ‘Where do you go to meet guys?’…

Can you guess?

Out of place!

On a Friday night, she’d head down to her local club.

Now it doesn’t take a genius to work out that pasta/ DVD guy is not hanging out (typically) in a club.

Worst of all it was the SAME CLUB she went to every weekend! Meaning a small pool of guys to encounter.

It seems OBVIOUS but how much have you analysed your dating habits of late? How much are you meeting new people? And are those people likely to be the people to give you what you want?

To learn where to find the right guy for you and never look at the wrong places, join my next Commanding Love workshop!

What Marissa had to say about Commanding Love:

Hey Hayley!

I just had to email you and thank you for the Commanding Love workshop – so much resonated with me and I learned so much and left feeling empowered. I used your tips on panning the room and situated near a guy I was attracted to and gave him a smile (something I would never have the courage to do before). We ended up spending the whole night talking! He later told me he never would have had the guts to come over to me had I not made that first smile letting him know I was open. Anyway, he hasn’t stopped texting me since that night! Anyway, thanks again!

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