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men's hobbies

3 weird features of men’s hobbies

If there’s one sex difference I think carries some weight it’s that men’s hobbies are a lot different to women’s. That’s not to say that all we care about is finding a partner, marriage, babies, and ironing but there’s something…

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new year resolutions

3 New Years Resolutions that will help you find love

You may not realise it but if you’re not meeting anyone then you’ve probably developed some unhelpful habits that are stopping you from finding love (or at least someone you really fancy..). If there are a few New Years resolutions…

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pretty enough

Pretty Enough for Him to Say Hello?

If there’s one cause I’m passionate about it’s about making sure you don’t feel weird taking control of your love lives. This includes feeling self-conscious and not enough- especially not pretty enough? As women we’ve heard a lot of junk…

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Christmas party

Alone at a Christmas party?

If I think back over to the nights where I’ve had the most fun, met the most people and (yes) probably enjoyed the most flirtation it’s definitely been when I’ve been Billy No Mates. And yes this includes the times…

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tinder profile

What makes a great Tinder profile

Now as you know I am not a huge fan of you just using Tinder for dates. However, I can’t deny that if you’re aged 18- late 30s pretty much everyone you might want to date will have logged on…

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stressed & demotivated

Getting stressed & demotivated? Reset with me

Health warning! Modern life will get you stressed & demotivated as a side-effect of various situations: The guy you liked disappearing after your date (thanks Tinder) Colleagues/ families/ transport/ so-called friends testing your patience levels …and don’t get me started on…

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stand out

How to stand out more to men

Firstly, you don’t need to change your DNA to stand out more to men. Nor your hair colour or dress size for that matter. There is a simple psychological technique that will make men approach you more. Do you want…

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3 signs he’s flirting with you… and you don’t know it

I was out with one of my clients last weekend and one thing really struck me- Men are not flirting how they used to! Think about it: Guys are more cautious about expressing their interest than ever before. Trust me I…

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gift of yoga

A Gift to my Female Followers in London

  I want to give a gift to my female followers in London… Because you are awesome, powerful, women who I admire! As a huge thank you for: Not relying on him/ luck/ cupid to find you. Not giving up…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.