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Should You Be More Feminine To Attract Men?

I find women’s dating advice that talks about blocked chakras, or needing to be ‘more in your feminine energy’. A little restrictive (who is to say what is and isn’t feminine?) and not all that helpful (so you need more…

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How Do I Get Him To Commit?

If you have just stumbled across this article, before you move on I have a few things I really need to say to you. I know right now you may be feeling confused by endlessly mixed signals, vague promises, and…

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Why You Need to Ditch the Dating Drama

You need to ditch dating drama not because you may ‘scare them off’ (though that might happen too). But because you have bigger goals that need your time, energy and dedication. After years of, on some strange level, enjoying narrating…

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Why does he act like he wants to see you again and then disappears

Why does he act like he wants to see you again and then disappears?

  You have a great date (or two) and he seems so into you…He makes loving remarks, mentions future plans, and comes on STRONG. You were even taken aback by how certain he seemed to be. When you met you…

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A Beginner’s Guide To How To Be Alone

I didn’t use to know how to be alone: the thought of going somewhere by myself made me feel like a loser. So I spent time with people whom I only had a paper-thin connection to. I can’t even remember…

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Where have all the good men gone?

Where Have All The Good Men Gone? How To Meet Guys

The truth, of course, is that where have all the good men gone isn’t the question you should be asking. As much as it would be nice if all the ‘good’ (and I guess by this we mean single, honest,…

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How to Get Over Your Ex – You Do NOT Still Love Him

You don’t like to admit it: but you feel like you still love him. It’s time for you to learn how to get over your ex! You do a double-take in the street, look for hints of him in other…

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Why He Disappeared: Understanding Duality in Dating

Or were you blindsided by how someone, who seemed so into you, could just vanish? And end up wondering why he disappeared? (Occasionally to reappear with zombie-like powers of regeneration on WhatsApp.) What is the explanation for this? Did you…

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Why you can’t solve your problems with a plane ticket and a date

You think you want to date more. You think you should be having sex more. Do you think that having someone to message on the regular will help you? And hell if you don’t have that then you might as…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.