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Message To Send

What Message To Send To A Guy You Want Back 

So what message do you send to an ex-boyfriend who’s always on your mind? Or the guy who was always a bit uncertain about commitment, then eventually disappeared? The short answer is – you do not message this guy! But before you…

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first message

First message to send to a guy: online dating

Before I even get on to WHAT first message to send to a guy online… the question you may be facing is, ‘should I be making the first move at all?’  I get it – there’s a strong argument here…

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5 Messages You Should Never Send To A Guy You Like

I bet if a man was lucky enough to form a relationship with you, that you’d be an amazing partner. However (and this is a big one) he may never get that far unless you know how to communicate the right…

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lockdown is over

So now that lockdown is over, can you suggest meeting up in person?

Asking someone to meet in person after lockdown, might seem a bit like a taboo subject, which is why I partnered up with Match to give you modern advice on how to approach this!  The tips that I gave in…

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Can you ask someone for commitment during a lockdown?

Lockdown has changed a lot for dating and relationships, which is why we created a series of mini-video advice with Match to help you create something real, even during these unusual times!  So, let’s talk about that big C: Commitment!…

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getting him to say yes

Be The Sun Not The Wind: Getting Him To Say Yes

Ok. He doesn’t want to move in together. He feels uncomfortable calling you his ‘girlfriend’. You want him to acknowledge your needs and wants. So is getting him to say yes impossible?  There are often some key milestones in building your…

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Ready To Date

How To Know You’re Ready To Date?

If you’re reading this, I’m guessing you’re somewhat interested in starting to date and wondering if you are ready to date. However, a HUGE problem that I hear time and time again is that dating can feel like a chore. …

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how to be single

How to be Single and Empowered in 7 steps

  Today I wanted to talk to you about HOW to be single because I vividly remember 2 versions of being single: (Appreciate this is both the title of a funny movie and that by now you may feel like…

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dating during coronavirus

How To Date During Coronavirus?

Dating has changed (again). If you thought that modern dating was confusing enough, try adding in dating during coronavirus. Modern dating had already left behind the traditional playbook for how to build relationships. It has also introduced a need to…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.