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How To Get Over Your Crush

Letting Go Of ‘That Guy’ – How To Get Over Your Crush

  We have all had a guy that we can’t get over. A crush that we just can’t seem to let go of. He doesn’t want a relationship with you and always has an excuse. When you’re together it is…

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Why Can’t I Find Love

  It is easy to say you cannot find love because people don’t want commitment anymore. To promise yourself that you don’t need anyone else: you don’t but it’s okay to want them. What is HARD to do is to admit…

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5 Reasons You’re Still Single

This is not a blog about this. It is not a blog giving you the ill-thought-out advice that ‘you’re too in your masculine’ or ‘you just need to be yourself’. That’s a lazy, shorthand answer for the elephant in the…

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Should You Be More Feminine To Attract Men?

I find women’s dating advice that talks about blocked chakras, or needing to be ‘more in your feminine energy’. A little restrictive (who is to say what is and isn’t feminine?) and not all that helpful (so you need more…

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How Do I Get Him To Commit?

If you have just stumbled across this article, before you move on I have a few things I really need to say to you. I know right now you may be feeling confused by endlessly mixed signals, vague promises, and…

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Why You Need to Ditch the Dating Drama

You need to ditch dating drama not because you may ‘scare them off’ (though that might happen too). But because you have bigger goals that need your time, energy and dedication. After years of, on some strange level, enjoying narrating…

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Why does he act like he wants to see you again and then disappears

Why does he act like he wants to see you again and then disappears?

You have a great date (or two) and he seems so into you…He makes loving remarks, mentions future plans, and comes on STRONG. You were even taken aback by how certain he seemed to be. When you met you felt…

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A Beginner’s Guide To How To Be Alone

I didn’t use to know how to be alone: the thought of going somewhere by myself made me feel like a loser. So I spent time with people whom I only had a paper-thin connection to. I can’t even remember…

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Where have all the good men gone?

Where Have All The Good Men Gone? How To Meet Guys

  “Which dating apps do all the best quality men hang out on? What type of women are guys most attracted to? Where have all the good men gone?!? Does anyone have the ETA? The postcode? The web domain? ”  I hear these questions…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.