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How to Get Over Your Ex – You Do NOT Still Love Him

It aggravates me when I read blogs and newsletters from dating experts telling you ‘how to get your ex back’. This is not what you need to hear. So I wanted to tell you something different. The real reason why…

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Why He Disappeared: Understanding Duality in Dating

Or were you blindsided by how someone, who seemed so into you, could just vanish? And end up wondering why he disappeared? (Occasionally to reappear with zombie-like powers of regeneration on WhatsApp.) What is the explanation for this? Did you…

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Why you can’t solve your problems with a plane ticket and a date

You think you want to date more. You think you should be having sex more. Do you think that having someone to message on the regular will help you? And hell if you don’t have that then you might as…

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The Bogus Dating Advice of Sex Differences That’s Keeping You Stuck

Time to blow the whistle on some bad dating advice! The dating advice that is based on overemphasised, under-researched sex differences. How many times have you heard dating advice that tells you, ‘scientific research proves men and women think differently.…

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Dating Disrupted – The Curious Nature of Sex

  Listen to my latest podcast The Curious Nature of Sex- Dating Disrupted. Listen to my new podcast ‘The Curious Nature of Sex’ to explore dating disrupted. How is the dating world changing? How do single women really experience dating?…

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Does advice from pick-up artists work for women?

I know you have an idea in your mind about pick up artists. They’re scummy, misogynists who probably know a card trick or two. Now I am not here to condone many aspects of the pick-up artist community. There are definitely…

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Fears and feelings men get when they see an attractive woman

  First I would like to introduce myself. My name is Reggie Wade, and I am a writer and social content editor from Brooklyn, New York. I have had the pleasure of knowing Hayley for a little while now, and…

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Are you ready for a relationship?

I bet at some stage you’ve met an awesome guy who is perfect on paper. But the timing is off because he says he’s not ready for a relationship. However, if you’re not connecting with any guys and all your…

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Signs he’s a good guy

Top 5 honest signs he’s a good guy

“Honest signals” are signs that he’s a ‘good guy’ that are hard to fake. I always feel uncomfortable writing blogs like these. I don’t want you to approach dating with the assumption ‘men are all liars’ etc. Guys are pretty…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.