Feeling drained: You are emotionally drained from men who disappear on the day of your date, or never quite get around to meeting up with you.
Feeling compromised: You are constantly accepting 'situationships' where the connection is there but their effort is lacking.
Feeling disenchanted: You are disheartened by modern dating, and don’t know where or how to improve.
Abundance: You feel like you can step outside your door and get a date…
Empowerment: …which means you also feel empowered to keep your standards high.
Confidence: You understand men and have a pathway to the relationship you choose.
Happiness: You realise dating can finally be fun again!
What I hear from the women I coach is that they want 2 things to change in their dating lives. 1. Their results. 2. How they feel during the process of getting there.
From my perspective, dating is a “new thing” that we as humans have to do. Sure we’ve largely unshackled ourselves from “needing a man”, but our post-modern alternative to love isn’t that great either. We primarily meet people on apps, designed by (hot?) geeks in San Francisco. We now have to negotiate situationships, and “the talk” before we dare assume that a relationship could actually go anywhere. Plus face a torrent of malicious dating trends from ghosting, to breadcrumbing, to red flags, beige flags…… it’s enough to make even the most self-assured woman lose her confidence.
Not to mention all of the traditional ways we undermine women’s self-esteem: scrutiny about our age and looks are still what a lot of women chalk up their dating success (or lack thereof) to. Then you receive a message from a guy you weren’t that into anyway telling you that he doesn’t really see this going anywhere, so don’t try to convince him otherwise?!
Seriously. There has to be another way right?
My mission is to take you to a place where dating can be fun and enjoyable again. Where you have a game plan and a toolkit to get there. Where you understand a more effective way to take action in your dating life. Dating needs to be exciting, and empowering. From this place - where you’re thriving - it is so much easier to feel self-confident, to naturally have great standards, to be attractive to potential dates.
The bad news is to get there takes work, and practice (just like anything you train for in life.) The good news is this can be a deeply rewarding process, and a lot of fun. Let me help you meet some new wingwomen. Let me teach you the art of enticing him to approach you IRL. And with your new found confidence, let's agree to let go of options that weren’t that great anyway. Walk out of your front door with confidence. Get the relationship that you want.
Meet Men IRL
Optional in-person coaching where my team and I teach you how to meet men in real life. No classrooms, we’re going to bars and shops for your learning!
Learn to Love Yourself
Self-esteem boosting weekly masterclasses where we will figure out what’s holding you back, and teach you how to create choice in your dating life.
Fully Immersive
Going Renegade is 4 weeks long, creating the perfect amount of time to form better habits and make real change.
High Impact
Weekly challenges take you to the edge of your comfort zone and are designed to create permanent change in your dating life.
Head out with Hayley and her coaching team and learn how you can meet men in real life over a 4-day intensive: Wednesday night, Thursday night, Friday night and Saturday daytime. By the end of your session men will be magically walking up to you and asking for your number!
Meet the coachesOn your first in-person session with the coaching team you will focus on easy conversation starters to meet men in real-life.
Want him to be the one who says hello to you? Time to master your body language and signals to prompt the men you want to talk to you.
Great men really are everywhere, and you don’t need to be in a bar to meet them! Master how to meet men in everyday life scenarios during your lunch break.
Fed up of being seen as a friend, and not a date? Wondering why you’re confident socially, but not with men you like? Learn to adapt your conversation skills for flirtation and attraction, not just networking.
The final live coaching session with the Hayley Quinn coaching team - and your new wingwomen - will focus on how you can develop independence and sustain your new dating lifestyle.
Suitability: In-person coaching involves starting conversations with men in real life. If you find social interactions particularly challenging, you may wish to speak to a licensed therapist first.
Experience the real-life success stories from women who've thrived in the Going Renegade dating bootcamp, showcasing how they've reinvigorated their single life, mastered in-person dating, and empowered themselves to take control of their dating journey.
"OMG, the training really works (never doubted it)! On the train, I chatted with a guy who ran a marathon in memory of his dad. He'd raised a lot for charity, so I offered to donate and shared my contact. He just messaged me: 'Let's meet up for dinner/lunch/coffee!' I'm amazed!"
"Travelling home after Going Renegade, I reflected on how a year ago, I struggled with acceptance after my divorce. Back then, I relied on someone else's words to feel 'awesome.' Today, I realize I truly am amazing, and it's coming from within. I would hit on me for sure. Obrigada!! Beijos."
"I just want to say a huge thanks to you and your team. I was really reluctant to sign up to Going Renegade... I guess I was embarrassed that I couldn't just do this stuff naturally. But I'm so glad a did, already I feel more confident, more sexy, and importantly... I feel happy being single again! So thanks so much. Now to keep practicing."
"I had a LOT of fun - which was totally unexpected!! Going Renegade has completely changed my view of dating. Thank you!"
"I had an incredible weekend of Going Renegade. To be honest, I was initially hesitant to join something like this (everyone else seems to manage fine, right?), but sharing the experience with such a fantastic group of ladies erased any embarrassment. In fact, I feel pretty amazing about myself now. Just need to keep practicing! Spoke to two gentlemen before breakfast today... no numbers yet, but I was just getting warmed up. Thank you Hayley!"
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