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Rated 4.8 out of 5 by 1000s of happy customers

Dating coach for men & women

Build your confidence, meet people IRL and develop practical dating skills with the help of top dating coach and relationship expert Hayley Quinn.

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Transform your dating life with the help of an expert

Dating can make you feel a lot of things: Totally out of your depth, profoundly vulnerable, and also painfully frustrated. Whether you’re a “beginner” at dating who’s trying to find their feet, or have had more than your fair share of bad experiences; dating successfully requires resilience. That's where having a coach in your corner can help you. My team and I specialise in teaching you practical, real world tools to transform your dating life. 

With over a decade of experience in the dating industry, I've had the privilege of working with thousands of men and women from all walks of life. You may have seen my TEDx talk, books on dating, or YouTube videos. My coaching approach is rooted in empathy, personal growth, and a deep understanding of the intricacies of modern dating. Working with me, and my dedicated team, you’ll learn real life skills to meet, date and build relationships with the people you choose.

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Learn the skills to date in IRL

Together we'll find ways to improve your confidence and expand your comfort zone.

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Let's turn up the volume on who you are, not learn cheap lines

My team of dating coaches and I are committed to promoting ethical dating practices. Our focus is on empowering you to navigate the dating landscape with integrity and authenticity.

I want you to get better at meeting people IRL, communicating what you want and understanding how to become the most attractive version of yourself.

This journey should be about turning up the volume on who you are, not learning some cheap lines that ultimately undermine your self esteem. We will be able to pinpoint your dating blindspots and give you the exact tools and exercises you need to overcome your sticking points with dating. Time to break a habit of a lifetime and become truly successful at dating. 

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IN-PERSON TRAINING

Real-world dating bootcamps that will transform your outlook

The most effective way to change your dating life is skills-based practical training. Come face to face with the dates you’ve always wanted, and everything that’s held you back from getting them, with our in-person bootcamps. We take men and women out into the real world to discover the lost art of meeting one another in real life.

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Get personal 1-to-1 feedback from me

For 15 years I’ve been the UK’s leading dating coach and relationship expert. I’ve coached men and women to conquer their fears and change their dating lives: Whether that’s finally having the confidence to meet people in real life, letting go of a 'situationship', re-building their dating profiles or finally getting to the root cause of what’s holding them back.

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What customers are saying

Explore the success stories and transformational experiences of countless satisfied customers, showcasing the real-world impact of Hayley Quinn's dating and relationships expertise.

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Boosting Self-Esteem and Confidence

"Hayley and her experienced team are nothing short of dynamic and inspirational. Their insight, patience and wisdom has completely re-shaped my apporach to dating. I have traveled from a place of low self-belief and esteem to a place of confidence and value. Hayley is gifted not only in the coaching of men and women's dating but also has an awesome ability to create a supportive community among her students. I couldn't have asked for more."

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Chris A.
London, UK
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Hayley Is Incredible!

"This woman is incredible - if you can, get on one of her intensives! I took part in the Going Renegade for woman for a weekend and it was amazing - a great way to learn and develop skills for approaching and speaking to men. I met a lovely bunch of supportive woman and we stay in touch and still meet up to practice our skills together  out on the town!!"

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Rosie A.
London, UK
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From Montreal to London: An Amazing Adventure

"I travelled from Canada to London to join one of Hayley's programs. As a foreigner who loves British culture it was AMAZING visiting bars and clubs with Hayley and her crew. The skills taught are useful not only in romantic relationships but also for making friends and business networking. I would definitely do this again! So if you like traveling and are willing to approach new people, just do it!"

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Mackenzie P.
Montreal, Canada
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Magical Times :)

"I'm still high from the weekend lol thank you everyone, I feel like I'm in a adult version of Harry Potter, going around casting spells"

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Tandy M.
London, UK
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Finally Took The Plunge!

"A life-changing experience I'd put off for years, but finally took the plunge! Hayley and her team are incredibly welcoming and immediately put you at ease. I was initially skeptical, fearing another 'PUA' program, but boy, was I wrong! They're flexible, relaxed, and empower you to be yourself, offering unwavering support. If you're not where you want to be in your dating life, sign up with Hayley and her amazing coaches—you won't regret it!"

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Bertrand B.
Cardiff, Wales

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Frequently Asked Questions

We’ve shared some of our most frequently asked questions to help you out.

Who is dating coach Hayley Quinn?

Hayley Quinn is a dating coach, TED speaker with 3 million views, and media personality. Her online dating courses and in-person dating programs have helped thousands of men and women build their confidence with dating. To learn more about Hayley’s story and values check out “Who Is Hayley Quinn?”.

What does a dating coach do?

Dating coaches help men and women to achieve the results they want in their dating lives: this can be through building up theoretical knowledge, working on mindset, or completing practical training exercises. At Hayley Quinn we work equally with men and women and specialise in building your confidence to meet people in real life.

Is Hayley Quinn a London dating coach or does she work in NYC, Los Angeles, San Fran and other global cities?

Hayley Quinn runs dating bootcamps and workshops in London, UK. All our courses have online dating coaching options available meaning you can join in from anywhere in the world. The online dating courses found in Wingwoman Club and Wingman Club are great if you live in the US want to do online dating coaching with Hayley. Additionally, Hayley also offers in-person Private Coaching to clients from around the world, and has created bespoke programs in clients' home cities including NYC, San Fran, Chicago, Los Angeles, Amsterdam and Paris.

Does Hayley Quinn do online dating coaching?

Hayley Quinn offers online dating coaching via 1-to-1 videocalls. Hayley also has an online community for dating advice that is accessible to Wingwoman and Wingman Club members — where you can ask your dating questions and watch Hayley’s online dating courses.

Does Hayley Quinn offer free coaching?

Hayley Quinn doesn’t offer free dating coaching however you can read her dating advice on her blog "Learn to Love Dating".

Does Hayley Quinn work with men or women?

Hayley Quinn is a dating coach who works with men and women of all orientations and backgrounds.

Is Hayley Quinn a relationship coach?

Hayley Quinn is the resident dating and relationships coach at Match and offers advice as a relationship expert for a wide variety of publications from Cosmopolitan to the Independent.

Where can I get dating advice and tips from Hayley Quinn?

You can ask Hayley and her team of dating coaches your questions in Wingwoman Club or Wingman Club. Hayley also regularly posts her best dating advice on her blog.

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