Real Academy — The Dating Bootcamp for Men
Meet more women in real-life than ever before with my in-person city bootcamps
- 4-day immersion bootcamp in the city with your wingwoman Hayley, and her team. Get over your fears and start meeting the women you want in the real world.
- The fastest way to improve your dating skills — proven!
- Includes 6-week Virtual Masterclass, WhatsApp coaching, a dating app makeover, professional stylist makeover, live practise dates and more!
- Current locations: New York City, London
Greg, 42 — Los Angeles
Greg is a real client, anonymised for privacy. Although he had success on dating apps, approaching women in real life caused him intense anxiety. He wanted to become more confident and open in social situations, not just better at dating.
Dating apps weren’t the issue. In real-life situations, he often noticed opportunities to start conversations, but the anxiety would stop him acting on them.
Cold approach gave me more anxiety than public speaking."
Rather than learning lines or tactics, we focused on changing how he related to social interactions altogether.
Through repeated practice and feedback, he began challenging the stories he'd been telling himself about how other people would respond.
Almost immediately after the New York programme, he noticed a completely different way of interacting with the world.
One evening while waiting for a date at a restaurant, he started a conversation with another woman who had chosen to sit beside him.
After a great conversation she left for her table. As she walked past again, he asked for her number.
"I'm so glad you asked. I was waiting for you to."
Later that same evening, after chatting to another table, one of the men came over and praised Greg in front of his date.
For Greg, these moments weren’t simply dating successes. They changed what he believed was possible whenever he entered a social situation.
Real Academy completely changed the way I understood social interaction."
Real Academy is my most comprehensive coaching program
The program covers EVERY area of your dating life and is designed to get you results FASTER than any other program. Find out for yourself!
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4x Days Dating Bootcamp
- 17+ hours in-person coaching
- 2 evening sessions
- 2 daytime sessions
6x Weekly Live Group Coaching Sessions
- I cover ever area — from flirting to messaging — and every stick point in between
- I answer your questions live
- 100% personalised advice
Real-Time Coaching
- Access to a dedicated WhatsApp coaching channel
- Get extra coaching from me to stay accountable
2x Live Practise Dates
- Face-to-face with my female coaches, Carrie and Parvin
1x Style Makeover
- Work with a top men's stylist
- Get personal suggestions for your wardrobe and budget
- (Yes, I still believe it’s what’s on the inside that counts!)
1x Dating Profile Makeover
- Detailed profile review and re-write, with me
- Feedback on your photo selections and how to tell your unique narrative
1x Professional Photoshoot
- Includes 2 new digital photos
PLUS... everything in my Virtual Masterclass!
- A complete blueprint for your dating life
- 6x weekly modules
- Coursework to build your knowledge base fast
- And loads more!
What more clients are saying
"I am grateful for the skills I learned from your teachings. It helped me to find and build a relationship. Real Academy is just the coolest!"
What makes Real Academy so special?
With intensity, comes accelerated learning
Real Academy is the fastest way to improve your dating skills — proven! No amount of classwork or theory beats the practical hands-on experience of getting out into the wild.
100% focussed on YOUR goals
I build up your confidence slowly through weekly challenges, coursework, and group coaching calls. I get to know you personally, and give you a clear framework to achieve your goals.
The most complete dating package in the market
Includes my 6-week Virtual Masterclass programme covering all areas of your dating life from dating apps, to messaging her, flirting, mindset and dates.
Real-time support from me
I'll answer your questions as they arise and coach you through weekly challenges in our WhatsApp coaching group.
What more clients are saying
Listen to Chris share his transformational journey, and how my coaching redefined his approach to dating. Believe it or not, he's now one of my coaches!
I love working with men who want results!
If you want real results you'll need to commit to the following:
- Attend a 4-day city dating bootcamp (London or NYC) for 17+ hours coaching
- Attend a 45-minute weekly group coaching call
- Watch a 45-minute weekly video module
- Take a weekly challenge and report back to me
- 45 minutes a week on fully personalised coursework
- Engage in daily WhatsApp coaching
What more clients are saying
"Real Academy helps you understand not just what to do but how to do it. It’s like gaining a superpower in dating."
What happens on the 4-Day Dating Bootcamp?
My coaching, whether online or in-person, is based on real-world interactions. You'll learn about yourself — and others — faster when you meet them in the flesh. Prepare to leave your comfort zone, reach maximum intensity and get results FAST. I'm the only coach who can say, "I'll be right behind you!" and physically mean it.
Let's Chat!Thursday Night
Core Skill: Overcoming Your Fears
Kick-start your approaching journey with our first 5 exercises designed to get you past your fear of approaching women. Meet more women in 4 hours than you have in the last 12 months!
Friday Night
Core Skill: Meeting Women In Bars
Spend your second night finessing your approach. If you thought you could never approach a group of women or a woman you’re attracted to, you will be surprised by what you can achieve. Relax into your interactions and begin honing your flirting skills.
Saturday Daytime
Practice Dates
Go on a practice date with one of our friendly and experienced female coaching team to get honest feedback on your communication skills.
Dating App Photos
Grab some new pics for your dating app profile: We know how to up your image and make you more marketable.
Core Skill: Meeting Women During The Daytime
Don't be limited to just meeting women in bars (or dating apps) discover how many opportunities to connect with women are literally walking right past you! Meeting women in coffee shops, galleries and food courts often suits men who are naturally introverted.
Sunday Daytime
Core Skill: Swapping Numbers
With your confidence growing find yourself getting phone numbers from women you've just met, and maybe even having a date there and then! Leave this weekend with a deep sense of satisfaction that you’ve not only got the results you want: but you’ve stayed true to yourself, and formed new friendships along the way.
What more clients are saying
"Real Academy was one of the best investments I have ever made. In 12 weeks, Hayley and her team have revolutionized my approach to dating. You feel they all care and want to help. It's also an exciting challenge and loads of fun! After completing Real Academy I felt comfortable approaching women, and after dozens of approaches and dates, I started seeing a great girl. I now have the skills to feel confident in dating and building connections when required."
I focus on results. That's it.
I've helped 1000s of men to achieve their goals
- Perhaps you feel stuck in an unsatisfactory relationship and wish you had the know-how to cast your net further
- Perhaps you let opportunities to meet high quality women pass you by — and struggle to get dates with women you like
- Perhaps you're not succeeding on dating apps and haven't realised real-life can be to your advantage
- Perhaps you get 'friendzoned' too much and feel you can't break that deadlock
Choose a Real Academy to suit your calendar and timezone
Places sell out fast so book early to grab your place on my flagship dating program and you might qualify for an Early Bird discount. More great cities coming soon — email me to up-vote your hometown!
Tomas, 35 — Aberdeen
Tomas is a real client, anonymised for privacy. After leaving a toxic, one-sided relationship, he wanted to stop overthinking and learn how to meet women in real life, despite being naturally introverted.
Tomas had a small social circle and found the prospect of approaching women extremely intimidating.
He had recently left a long-distance relationship in which he felt emotionally used and believed he had accepted far less than he deserved.
Even seeking support felt uncomfortable, as he worried that dating coaching might be embarrassing.
I was in a toxic relationship… and I was just not getting what I deserved.”
We focused on helping Tomas act before overthinking talked him out of opportunities.
Through online coaching and practical experience during Real Academy (London), he learnt how to start conversations, recognise positive signals and take the initiative in a way that still felt natural to him.
The aim was not to turn him into an extrovert, but to help him become more socially open and comfortable meeting women in everyday situations.
During the London programme, Tomas received three phone numbers, with one of those introductions leading to dates while he was in London.
He later met his current partner naturally in an everyday setting. They began chatting and flirting, and he decided to ask her out directly.
He now describes the relationship as mature, caring and balanced, with both partners making time for and supporting one another.
Whatever happens in the future, Tomas believes he now has the skills to meet someone again rather than returning to the same patterns of overthinking and inaction.
We chatted a bit, flirted with each other, and at the end I just bluntly asked her out. Since then, it’s been working very, very well.”
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the Real Academy Dating Bootcamp?
The Real Academy Dating Bootcamp is my transformational and immersive coaching program designed to help men boost their dating skills and meet amazing women. This bootcamp combines a 4-day in-person bootcamp with my 6-week virtual masterclass, along with personalized WhatsApp coaching, dating app and stylist makeovers, and live practice dates.
Who is the Real Academy Dating Bootcamp for?
My dating bootcamp is perfect for men who are ready to take their dating life to the next level and get life changing results. Because of the intensive real-world nature of the program, it’s the fastest way to get results — read my reviews to see for yourself. Whether you're new to dating or regularly dating but not quite meeting the women you want, my program is tailored around you and your specific needs. I welcome men from all walks of life, whether you're a professional, a divorcé, or simply someone ready to invest in their personal growth.
How does the Real Academy Dating Bootcamp work?
It all starts with a friendly 1x1 Zoom consultation to make sure we’re a good fit. Once you sign up, you’ll dive into my recorded Virtual Masterclass and schedule your first group coaching session. Over the next 6 weeks, you’ll join live coaching sessions, tackle weekly challenges, and get ongoing support through email and WhatsApp. My program is designed to be hands-on and personalized, so you see fast and lasting results.
What is included in the Real Academy Dating Bootcamp?
Here's what you get with the Real Academy Dating Bootcamp:
- A 4-day in-person city bootcamp (available in London or NYC)
- 17+ hours of live in person coaching
- A 6-week Virtual Masterclass
- Weekly live group coaching sessions
- Personalized WhatsApp coaching
- A complete dating app profile makeover
- Professional stylist makeover
- A professional photoshoot
- Live practice dates with female coaches
What makes the Real Academy Dating Bootcamp unique?
My dating bootcamp stands out because it’s a comprehensive and personalized experience that includes in-person coaching — you can’t beat that for results! I focus on practical, real-world interactions and provide continuous support through WhatsApp and email. Plus, with unique features like professional styling, photoshoots, and live practice dates, you’ll be fully prepared to succeed in the dating world.
How much does the Real Academy Dating Bootcamp cost?
The cost of Real Academy is $2,700 (£1,995) payable in interest-free instalments.
Feel free to contact me directly for detailed pricing information and payment options. If you’re looking for other budget-friendly options, I also offer programs like my Virtual Masterclass.
How soon can I expect to see results from the Real Academy Dating Bootcamp?
Many of my clients start seeing meaningful results DURING the 4-day bootcamp. The exact timeline depends on where you’re starting from, how much effort you put in, and how closely you follow my advice. My structured approach ensures you develop lasting skills and confidence in your dating life.
Can I still participate if I have a busy schedule?
Absolutely! My program is designed to fit into even the busiest schedules. While the 4-day in-person bootcamp is intense, the rest of the program can be completed at your own pace over 6 weeks. Live group coaching sessions are recorded (and you can send your questions in advance) in case you miss a session. Your weekly challenges and WhatsApp coaching can be completed async. For best results I recommend that you follow every step of the programme and take these 6 weeks to prioritise dating.
What if I need help beyond the 6-week program?
You’ll have lifetime access to all course materials, including my Virtual Masterclass. This means you can review these resources anytime. If you need more personalized help, you can also schedule additional coaching sessions as needed. No problem!
How do I get started with the Real Academy Dating Bootcamp?
To get started, schedule a friendly 1x1 Zoom consultation with me. During this call, we’ll discuss your goals, answer any questions, and decide if my bootcamp is the right fit for you. Once confirmed, you’ll get immediate access to the program materials and can start your transformation journey.
What is your refund policy for the Real Academy Dating Bootcamp?
As this is a bespoke programme built around your specific needs, we won’t be able to offer a refund if you have a change of heart: however, you will be offered the chance to transfer onto a later course date or exchange your Real Academy place for coaching credit.
What if I have more questions about the Real Academy Dating Bootcamp?
If you have any more questions, feel free to email me at hayley@hayleyquinn.com. I’m here to help and make sure you have all the information you need to make the best decision.
Real Academy gets real results!
Isn’t it time you put down your dating app, got off that forum, and met attractive women in real-life? Book a time to chat with me and tell me more about your goals so I can figure out how best to help.
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