I’m a UK-based dating coach offering in-person dating bootcamps and results driven online coaching programs to help you meet someone who excites you and build lasting relationships.
Working with me you’ll get an actionable coaching plan tailored to your goals—not vague advice or platitudes.


With 15+ years as a dating coach, I’ve trained thousands of men and women throughout the world. My approach is practical, structured, and results driven. I’ll work with you to develop real world social skills, practical strategies for dating and renewed self confidence.
I have a 4.9★ rating on Google. I focus on building mutual trust and long-term relationships with my clients. I’ll be there for your entire journey, and you’ll learn to count on me for straight-up, objective advice.
My in-person dating bootcamps teach my unique dating methodology.
These bootcamps have been independently reviewed by major publications for their real-world application and coaching integrity:
Cosmopolitan: “...if you're just feeling exhausted by dating and want to shift your mindset and feel more open and confident, I can't imagine there's much else that would be as effective. After all, it turned this sceptic into a believer.”
The Independent:“...dating coach extraordinaire Hayley Quinn swiftly puts me at ease… (she’s) inspired me to stop swiping, ignore the awkwardness, get out there and give it a go.”
These reviews highlight what clients experience first-hand: a coaching method based on real behavioural transformation, not surface-level advice.
Every programme is designed to give you live practice, structured challenges, and clear feedback. You learn by doing—so the confidence and skills you build translate directly into real-life dating. You won’t hear fluffy advice, platitudes, or excuses. Yes, dating can be challenging—but together we’ll make it enjoyable, rewarding and ultimately successful.
With me as your wingwoman, you will learn how to:
By booking into one of my coaching programs you will be learning via doing. Each program includes my signature dating challenges, detailed self study, high impact coaching calls (I’m you’re biggest supporter, but I will be honest with you when there’s work to be done), async WhatsApp coaching to give you on the spot advice and even in person coaching sessions in London.

Working with me as your dating coach is an investment, and you should see this as a medium term process. Expect to spend 6 weeks to 6 months getting to where you want to be.
Start by taking my Virtual Masterclass - a 4-6 week long accelerator program for your dating life. Available from £695/ $950 payable in up to 4 interest free instalments.
Push yourself further with my Real Academy or Going Renegade 4-day dating bootcamps in London. Want another city? Book a call with me to explore international coaching opportunities.
Or if you want that 1-1 touch and a fully personalised plan, I can work with you online and in-person.

Explore the success stories and transformational experiences of my countless satisfied clients, highlighting the real-world impact of my dating and relationships expertise.
"Hayley and her experienced team are nothing short of dynamic and inspirational. Their insight, patience and wisdom has completely re-shaped my apporach to dating. I have traveled from a place of low self-belief and esteem to a place of confidence and value. Hayley is gifted not only in the coaching of men and women's dating but also has an awesome ability to create a supportive community among her students. I couldn't have asked for more."
"This woman is incredible - if you can, get on one of her intensives! I took part in the Going Renegade for woman for a weekend and it was amazing - a great way to learn and develop skills for approaching and speaking to men. I met a lovely bunch of supportive woman and we stay in touch and still meet up to practice our skills together out on the town!!"
"I travelled from Canada to London to join one of Hayley's programs. As a foreigner who loves British culture it was AMAZING visiting bars and clubs with Hayley and her crew. The skills taught are useful not only in romantic relationships but also for making friends and business networking. I would definitely do this again! So if you like traveling and are willing to approach new people, just do it!"
"I'm still high from the weekend lol thank you everyone, I feel like I'm in a adult version of Harry Potter, going around casting spells"
"A life-changing experience I'd put off for years, but finally took the plunge! Hayley and her team are incredibly welcoming and immediately put you at ease. I was initially skeptical, fearing another 'PUA' program, but boy, was I wrong! They're flexible, relaxed, and empower you to be yourself, offering unwavering support. If you're not where you want to be in your dating life, sign up with Hayley and her amazing coaches—you won't regret it!"
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There are many dating coaches, each with different approaches. The best dating coach for you depends on your goals—whether you want to improve confidence, online dating skills, or real-world interactions.
Hayley Quinn is a leading dating coach known for:
In-person coaching that helps clients ditch dating apps and meet people in person.
A dating coach helps individuals develop confidence, social skills, and dating strategies. Coaching may involve:
Hayley Quinn specializes in practical, real-world coaching to help clients improve their dating lives beyond dating apps.
To find the right dating coach, consider:
Hayley Quinn is unique in offering step-by-step real-world coaching to help clients gain confidence in live interactions.
Yes, if you're looking for structured guidance to improve your dating life. Coaching is especially useful if:
Hayley Quinn’s men's dating bootcamp and women's dating bootcamp provide hands-on coaching to accelerate learning.
Yes, Hayley Quinn provides structured virtual coaching through:
Yes, Hayley Quinn works with both men and women. This gives her a unique perspective on:
Hayley Quinn is a leading dating coach, specialising in helping men and women navigate modern dating. While a relationship coach typically works with couples, Hayley focuses on dating strategy, confidence-building, and real-world attraction skills. She has been featured as a relationship expert in Cosmopolitan, The Independent, and as a spokesperson for Match.
Yes! Thousands of men and women have successfully transformed their dating lives through Hayley Quinn’s coaching. See real client success stories here.