Free download: How To Attract High Quality Men?
3 Part Video Series

Okay so I know you don’t believe me, but he really does exist. Yes the kind, loving, (and sexy) guy that you deserve. Life doesn’t always make it easy for us to recognise these amazing men when they come along, and maybe it’s been so long without meeting him, that you’re feeling utterly unmotivated to carry on the search.

My goal is to help shift your mindset to create positive expectations about what dating can be like for you. We’re also going to be looking at your current process for selecting and filtering men and work out what’s not working!

After coaching men and women to improve their dating lives for over a decade, I can say (no surprises here!) that he approaches the whole dating thing differently to you. Why does he come on strong and then disappear? Why did he seem to get cold feet? I can help you understand where he’s coming from, to help you manage your expectations and avoid over analysing.

Whether you meet your dream guy tomorrow or next year, what will get you there is feeling good about yourself and the process of dating. If right now you’re struggling to feel motivated to ‘put yourself out there’ again then I want to help you get your mojo back. I also want you to feel really good about yourself – so let’s find a way to date that protects your self esteem.

One of the first steps we want to take towards you feeling more confident & abundant is to show you that plenty of amazing guys exist. I want you to switch you on to meeting men in real life, but in the meantime, having a great online dating profile should be an easy win for attracting some great guys. We need to change your method for online dating so it feels like less of a slog, and spring clean your profile to get those super high quality matches.

In two seconds of meeting him in person you will know whether you want to see him again. Meeting in real life is also an amazing way of standing out to him as someone special. You would be amazed at all the places you visit in everyday life where you can meet great men (I should know, I met my husband at the gym!!) For years I’ve taught women how to get the men they want to approach them in real life.

What do you reply when he makes his messages too sexual too soon? What do you do when it’s 4 hours before the date, and he cancels? How do you subtly flirt via text so he feels excited to meet you? Texting is not only our dominant mode of communication, it’s also a bit of an art form and I want to help you to feel super confident when you hit send.

Knowing how and when to say, ‘no thanks,’ or ‘that’s just not right for me,’ is important not only for dating, but for taking care of yourself. I want to help you to develop loving boundaries, and high standards, for how people treat you. The respect you create for yourself, is only going to make you more attractive.

Right now dating might feel like a chore: you may even prefer job hunting to trying to meet a guy. I know it may seem impossible but I want to make dating fun for you again. No more boom bust cycles of falling for a guy only to be disappointed, it’s time to put you back in the driving seat of your dating life.

Feeling good about yourself on a day to day basis is vital for your self esteem. If you’re going on date after date without the spark, then instead of looking outwards to meet a new kind of guy, it’s time to look to how you can feel sexier. I really believe our ability to feel the spark starts with us: so let’s work to rebuild your sense of feeling sexy & confident.

Commitment isn’t a milestone to race towards, it’s something you offer to a man who really deserves it. You need to swap out of the, ‘how do I get him to commit?’ mindset and start trusting that with the right action steps he’ll be the one who is asking you for commitment.