Secret Place
Workshop: How To Meet Men In Real Life
Where have all the good men gone? I believe they’re everywhere! Secret Place switches you on to the power of being able to meet men in real life. This is a 100% live workshop meaning you will receive coaching in-person and jump into practical exercises that teach you the art of meeting him IRL… Don’t worry this isn’t striding up to him at a bar and saying “hey baby”; done well, it’s so subtle that he’ll think he started the conversation. Some would call it magic… I call it skills-based dating coaching.
Leave this place behind
'Unlucky': Never meeting anyone you actually like
Fears rejection: Frustrated that your friends don’t know anyone to set you up with
Under-confident: Feeling like you’re being overlooked
Find the Secret Place
Increased intuition: Intuitively know who secretly wants to meet you.
Improved subtlety: Learn how to subtly trigger him to speak to you.
More interactions: Meet a lot more of the men you want.
What is Secret Place?
After spending many years coaching men how to become better at meeting women IRL, I wanted to turn the tables and reverse engineer the practical skills you need to meet men in real life.
By unlocking your ability to meet men everywhere you provide yourself with something truly valuable: Motivation, fun and energy for your dating life. When you feel that you have no options, meeting him in person gives you an exciting alternative way to meet men. Meeting in person also has some real benefits: You get an immediate feel for the chemistry, and if you click, you are both more excited to go on a date.
If he meets you in person, and there’s (dare we say it) “a vibe” then even if you’re not the woman he would search for on a dating app, you may well connect. Meeting him in person is certainly not just for women in their 20s (though we welcome you too!) It's an empowering way for women to date at every stage of their lives. The practical exercises my coaching team teach you are also going to illuminate your limiting beliefs and allow you to move past your mental blocks around dating.
Please note this is a live training event: This means there’s no workshop-based learning element and 100% of this event is taught in real-life venues (bars, coffee shops) to get you interacting with men IRL.
This may sound nerve-wracking, but my coaching team’s style is supportive and caring. They are here to teach you and to champion you in expanding your comfort zones and feeling abundant in your dating life.
Why Secret Place?
IRL Training
Secret Place is a practical session meaning the coaching team takes you out into the real world to discover how to meet more men.
Send Stronger Signals
Learn 5 key signals you can send to men to get them to say hello to you.
Personal Feedback
Receive kind but helpful feedback as to how you come across in your interactions with men.
The antidote to dating apps...
If pressed to imagine what sort of woman would enrol in this course, I might have said someone who was extremely shy, lacking in self-esteem or, to put it bluntly, not particularly attractive. On all fronts I’ve completely missed the mark. The three young professionals out tonight, all in their mid-thirties, are good-looking, well-dressed and great company – they’re just sick of dating apps.”
A fun-filled evening awaits
Over 3 hours you’ll learn how to meet men in real life.
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What customers are saying
Discover the transformational journeys of women who have attended Secret Place, our taster session for women who want live coaching, as they share their experiences and the practical tools they've gained for meeting men in real life, all guided by our dedicated team of expert dating coaches.
"The coaching was so supportive and compassionate. I was solely relying on online dating to meet men and Secret Place helped me soften my boundaries and open up to opportunities. It also helped me shift my mindset, making dating fun and empowering, and boosted my confidence to approach men in real life. If you're ready to take control of your dating life, Hayley is your go-to."
"An amazing night! Pushed my comfort zone, gained insight into how men truly react. Big thanks to Hayley and her team for their top tips. Can't wait to use them! Thanks again!"
"Attending Hayley's Secret PLACE IRL event in London was truly empowering. Coaches and fellow members were warm, empathetic, and knowledgeable. This event brought online workshop skills to life, showing me how to create connections. It was fun, supportive, and incredibly meaningful. Being part of this group made me believe I can do anything. I highly recommend it for renewed dating confidence. Loved every moment!"
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Secret Place
Results may vary based on individual efforts and dedication to the course materials. We do not guarantee specific dating outcomes, as success depends on personal application and context.
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