How To Meet Men In Real Life Workshop 

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Where have all the good men gone?

We believe they’re everywhere! The Secret Place Workshop switches you on to the power of being able to meet men in real life. This is a totally LIVE event meaning you will receive coaching in person and jump into practical exercises that teach you the art of meeting him IRL… Don’t worry this isn’t striding up to him at a bar and saying “hey baby”, done well, it’s so subtle that he’ll think he started the conversation. Some would call it magic… we call it skills-based dating coaching. 

You Will Leave This Place

Never meeting anyone you actually like

Frustrated that your friends don’t know anyone to set you up with

Feeling like you’re being overlooked

Aggravated that you don’t have the options you want

You Will Find The Secret Place

Intuitively know who secretly wants to meet you 

Learn how to subtly trigger him to speak to you

Meet a lot more of the men you want

Boost your confidence a lot more of the men you want

Why meet him in person?

By unlocking your ability to meet men everywhere you provide yourself with something truly valuable: Motivation, fun and energy for your dating life. When you feel that you have no options, meeting him in person gives you an exciting alternative way to meet men. Meeting in person also has some real benefits: You get an immediate feel for the chemistry, and if you click, are both more excited to actually go on a date. 

If he meets you in person, and there’s (dare we say it) “a vibe” then even if you’re not the woman he would search for on a dating app, you may well connect. Meeting him in person is certainly not just for women in their 20s (though we welcome you too!) it’s an empowering way for women to date at every stage of their lives. 

Learning how to meet him in real life is not only an opportunity for you to inject fun into your dating life: The practical exercises that the Hayley Quinn team teaches you are also going to illuminate your limiting beliefs and allow you to move past your mental blocks around dating.


P.S. Please note this is a live training event: This means there’s no workshop-based learning element and 100% of this event is taught in real-life venues (bars, coffee shops) to get you interacting with men IRL.

Who is Hayley Quinn

Hayley Quinn is a world-renowned dating coach, author and TEDx speaker who specialises in teaching women how to meet men in real life. Having spent years coaching men how to become better at meeting women, Hayley’s now turned the tables, and reverse engineered the skills you need to meet men in person.

Hayley’s training techniques may sound nerve-wracking, but her team’s coaching style is supportive and caring. Our goal is to make this as easy and as enjoyable as possible for you to achieve. 

Hayley has spent over a decade perfecting her techniques and choosing her coaching team who run the Secret Place event. After meeting all her dates IRL, and eventually her husband at the local gym, she is all about switching you on to the power of meeting him in real life. 

Fancy a confidence boost to your dating life?

Join Hayley Quinn Secret Place

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October 19th 2023 – 6:30-9.30 p.m. BST

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Action-Packed Agenda

Over 3 hours you’ll learn how to meet men in real life


Meet the HQ coaching team and your new wing women at your Secret Place briefing. We always choose our venues carefully to ensure you maximise your chances of meeting the kind of men you want. Our team will work with you 1-1 or 2-1.


Hone your intuition. Learn how to “read the room”, show that you’re open to talking to men and figure out who wants to connect with you.


Receive, receive, receive. If you’re always overgiving, time to mend this relationship-fixing habit and finally communicate to the men you meet that you’d also like support. We teach you conversational techniques to start a conversation with him and filter through who is most able to be a good partner to you.


Consolidate your learning. Debrief with the team and acknowledge your wins. This is your opportunity to ask our dating coaches your questions and build friendships with the other women in your cohort.

What our customers are saying

“Fun, supportive and meaningful!”

“Attended Hayley’s Secret Place IRL event in London and it was empowering to say the least. From the coaches who were warm, empathic, and knowledgeable, to the other members who provided inspiration and confidence – it was an all-round energising experience. I haven’t been able to put into practice the skills learnt from online workshops yet; this event allowed me to see in action what it was like to generate connections with people and do it myself! Fun, supportive and meaningful. There is something about being with the group that makes you feel you can do absolutely anything. I would recommend to anyone who needs a boost and renewed confidence in the dating process. Loved it!”



“I feel even more confident”

“I was coached live and experimented how to approach men in real life in subtle ways. I was given lots of great tips to meet men in real life, and practised these tips live. I’m naturally an extrovert but always found it hard to do the first step. Now that I know how to do it, I feel even more confident in my abilities to meet a great partner. If you’re ready to take control of your dating life, and are ready to find your match then Hayley is the person you need to support you along the way!”



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Can’t find the answer you’re looking for? We’ve shared some of our most frequently asked questions to help you out!

  • Logistics
  • Delivery
  • Teaching Style
  • What You Need
  • Booking
  • Refunds & Support

Secret Place is held in central London locations and involves real life practice at meeting men. The workshop lasts 3 hours, typically from 18:00 to 21:00. Please note that we are really happy to welcome any women, of any orientation, to this workshop. We will adapt our exercises depending on who you are and who you want to attract.

You will spend half an hour in a private group workshop setting, 2 hours doing live practice and another half an hour gaining feedback on your day. Our goal is for this session to be empowering. Be prepared to have a great time, and make a breakthrough in your confidence levels. Our team of dating coaches are highly skilled at creating a supportive and easy-going learning environment: We are with you 100% of the way to help you take small steps to find meeting men much easier. Hayley’s specialist techniques are also incredibly subtle, and will always be tailored to be congruent to you.

Don’t worry about what you will say- we’ve got a syllabus for this 😉 Our teaching style emphasises authenticity, so we won’t be giving you lines, as much as we will be gently encouraging you to express yourself after following our teaching points. Lot of this workshop will also emphasise body language and non-verbal signals.

A positive outlook and a pen/ paper/ smart phone to make notes on. All other equipment and exercises will be provided by our experienced coaching team. We also ask that you arrive punctually for your session to start so as not to delay the session for other attendees.

We spend time preparing you for this event: so can only accept advance bookings. Spaces are always limited due to maintaining a strict 2-1 trainee- coach ratio. If you are unsure about whether this event is for you, we’d advise you to chat with us to get more details.

After booking your place on this session please note that you can change your booking slot to an alternative date 48 hours in advance of the session running. We do a significant amount of preparation for our sessions so unfortunately are not able to accommodate last minute refunds.