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What Turns Women On?

Posted on May 11, 2015 by - Blog, Men Blog

Pleasing a woman

You may have found yourself wondering – what in the world turns women on? What pleases them and makes them happy on a date? As it can sometimes feel like the fairer sex has a wish list as long as their flowing locks when it comes to what they want from you… I’ve always believed that there are some straight-up BEHAVIOURS (not looks) that make a man hot to a woman.

So I took the streets of Shoreditch to ask ‘What Turns Women On?’

What turns women on asking women on the streets

Today I have been wandering around interviewing women about what turns them on. Unfortunately, it didn’t go too sexy today.I did get some amazing pointers on what dating behaviours women are attracted to.

You might be surprised by some answers and find some of them quite obvious!

Here’s the video of my results, let me know what you think:

What did we learn?

Women like a decisive man who knows what he’s doing when he’s on a date with them. That judges the situation carefully, that takes his time to connect with them. And of course has great shoes! How obvious!

So apart from getting your butts down to cells to make sure that your footwear is up to scratch,  remember that it’s not the fancy restaurant that counts. It’s the great conversation that you have over that coffee.

I will be back in the second part of this video talking about I think the more interesting bit which is what puts women off of you. So make sure you tune in for that one next week.

In the meantime head to Hayley Quinn for tons more advice on my blog and my fantastic membership area where I save all of my best videos for.

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Hayley Quinn

Hayley Quinn is an internationally recognised dating coach and founder of the UK’s largest dating coaching company. She has over 2 Million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers.

She is the spokesperson for Match, the biggest online dating platform in the world. She has been featured on BBC1, Sky and Channel 4 and is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan and a contributor to yahoo!style.

Her first fiction book “The Last First Date” has been published by Harper Collins and her non-fiction book “Do This Not That” (Simon & Schuster) is due for publication in early 2023.

Her goal is to bridge the gap with modern dating and help inspire people to learn to love dating.

Phone: +447517915854
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