Learn to love dating

Overcoming Barriers and Finding Success in Dating: A Testimonial

Dating can often be challenging, especially when you don’t feel well-equipped or confident enough to engage with it. Paul, a PhD student in his early 40s residing in Northern England, was one of my recent Academy graduates and kindly agreed…

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How Does Your Age Affect Your Dating Life as a Woman?

So how does your age impact your dating life as a woman? One of the “joys” of being a woman is being subject to more social scrutiny about our age: Just think about being “filtered out” by potential matches on…

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How to meet women in real life (IRL) as a beginner

There are many reasons why you might find meeting women in real life hard: You don’t know what to say, you’re worried about looking creepy… But recently the one that’s stood out to me is: “…Am I too far behind…

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Why Playfulness On Your Dates Is So Attractive: It Shows You Don’t Have A Scarcity Mindset!

You’ve probably heard dating coaches telling you that you need to be playful on your dates; at its core this is because being playful demonstrates to a woman that you don’t have a scarcity mindset with dating.  You’re abundant, confident…

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The Perfect Response When She Says, “I’ll Let You Know.” 

You got her phone number, you finally psyched yourself out to ask her out, and she says, “I’ll let you know.” What does that really mean? Is that a rejection? Should you just move on? Or should you just be…

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Are You Struggling to Approach Women?

When you focus too much on what’s the “right” or “best” opener, 99% of the time you will get so caught up (okay, worried) about having the perfect line that you will struggle to approach her.  Compounded over weeks, months…

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Get Him To See You As a Date!

Maybe you have no shortage of social confidence, and can meet men in real life easily, but those interactions never translate into dates: he just ends up seeing you as a friend or a social acquaintance.  In this blog I’m…

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Do you Intimidate Men… Or is something else going on?

“I intimidate men” If you feel that the core issue with your dating life is that men are intimidated by you, this blog is for you.  As a dating coach I have a problem with most “catch all” explanations for…

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Worrying About What To Message Him? Stop Right There

Stop worrying about what to message him? Is that possible? No more typing it out, then deleting it? Or (worse) sending then deleting that WhatsApp message to him? No more anxiety over him reading the message but not responding? Those…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.