Confidence Building

Intuition Hack: Get the Guy you Want to Approach You

October 19, 2022
▪ 3 mins read

When he's the right one, he'll find you.

We all heard this sentence. But is there any truth to it? Well, yes and no.

Yes in that, yes, when he's in the right space to form a partnership, and he sees your value, he will be making steps forwards. But a lot of the time, remember, we're living in a post-#MeToo, post-pandemic era, and a lot of guys don't feel confident to make a bold move forward.

So unless we women get far more in control of our own signals, and ways of interacting with men, we are not going to be seeing all the options that are out there for us. And of course, seeing more options is a powerful thing for you. It's going to help you to start to feel abundance.  You're not going to get the horrible feeling around dating as if you're left sorting through the scraps of dating. Instead, you're going to start to feel positive and uplifted about your dating life.  

Attraction Circle

In this short video, based on module seven of my Attraction Circle programme, I am going to show you a simple exercise. This exercise will help you to recognise more opportunities around you every day.

For over 15 years, I've been helping men and women to improve their dating life. I do it by helping them get out there, yes, into the mess of the world with practical skills-based training and exercises. My team and I love to teach women to meet men in real life. And this is a snippet of this new superpower of being able to meet him in the real world that I'm gonna get you to discover.

Intuition Hack

To start recognising more opportunities that are around you, I want you to develop your sixth sense or your intuition. Developing in the sense of being able to sense what guys are around you who would like to speak to you. So remember, we're assuming at the moment that if you walk into a bar or a co-working space, maybe one guy will approach you. This guy will be really confident and at ease in his interactions. But, for every one guy that approaches you, there could be more that would like to, but they feel like they don't know what to say.  

He might feel that because of the recent pandemic, it will be creepy if he says hello to you. You're not seeing the abundance of options that are available to you. This intuition hack will help you learn to read your environment to recognise where those opportunities are.  

Your exercise

When you walk into any new environment, I want you to take a walk around the room. Look around and make eye contact with people. Smile. You don't have to do anything else yet. All I want you to do is start to notice who is looking at you. Who feels like they would want to approach you?    

This is going to feel strange particularly if you feel uncomfortable receiving attention. If you don't feel self-worth around how you look and how you engage with guys, this exercise might be surprisingly challenging for you. But I want and need you to start developing this intuition hack and awareness of quite a few options out there.

Next steps

If you're down for dating start to feel a lot more enjoyable and rewarding again.If you are open to skills-based training around how you can interact with dating in this powerful and different way I recommend you head over to  

This is my little gateway to a totally different way of you approaching your dating life. I hope to see you on the inside!

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