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How to tease a woman over text

With the new year already shaping up to have more lockdowns, I want to make sure that you know how to keep the flirtation alive with women you’re meeting. Also how to master your messaging and to tease her! Are you…

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A very simple hack to boost self-esteem from a top London life coach

    This article is written by Nick Hatter     If I’m totally honest, I would say I loathed myself for many years.      The story I had made up was that I was just simply not good…

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How to message a woman you’ve messed it up with

If you’ve been reading my latest text messaging advice*, you may now be looking back at some of your recent messages and thinking, ‘what damn! I wish I’d sent something different!’ So in this blog, I’m going to tackle how…

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How to create dating profile pictures that instantly double your matches

Are you finding that you keep getting overlooked on dating apps?  Or are you getting frustrated with the quality of the matches you’re receiving? The only thing standing between you and a host of great matches is, in all likelihood,…

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What Message Should You Send First On A Dating App?

    I hope you caught my last blog where I started to explain why what message you should send first on a dating app is so important!  (In short, she’s not messaging you first and actually what kind of…

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How do women choose guys on a dating app?

You should know by now, I am a big fan of meeting women in real life, but with C19 lingering and winter around the corner, you would be shrewd to also make sure that you have a great profile, pictures…

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5 Texting Mistakes To Avoid

Today I wanted to share with you some killer texting mistakes to avoid. Let me tell you something you already know: how you message a woman is very, very important.  Nevermore so than in 2020 when we’re meeting people more…

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Sexual Confidence – The Secret To Feeling More Confident With Women

  If you want to be confident with women when it comes to approaching and dating them there is definitely a big component of that… Sexual Confidence! Sexual confidence is about walking into a room radiating masculine energy.  In this post, I want to…

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Standards That You Need To Have In A Girlfriend

Here’s a funny difference in the dating advice men and women get: women are spoken to A LOT about standards i.e. how a man should be treating them. Men’s dating advice – nada. It’s like the outcome of whether you manage…

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Hayley is the UK’s leading dating coach. She has over 2 million views on her TED talk and over 100,000 YouTube subscribers. She is the spokesperson for Match, the world’s largest online dating platform. Hayley is a regular columnist for Cosmopolitan, and has appeared on TV shows ranging from BBC News to The Apprentice, to Celebs Go Dating. Her goal is to inspire men and women to learn to love dating.