Dating Tips
For Men

3 Ways You Can Be Sexier to Her

February 27, 2014
▪ 1 mins read

You need to feel sexy before she’ll find you sexy.

Feeling sexy is a matter of mindset rather than anything else. You can be sexier just by acknowledging the amazing, sexy parts of you. ATTRACTION TO A WOMAN IS REACTION TO YOU... so you better make sure you’re one hell of a good catalyst. To get closer to this I want you to ask yourself 3 questions.

1. When do you feel sexiest?

Is it after a long session at the gym? A successful work deal? When you approach more women? Whenever you feel sexiest you need to get into this headspace more often until you can switch on your sexual vibe like a lightbulb.

2. What’s your sexiest feature?

I don’t care if you think you’re too short/ too out of shape / too bald to make a woman fancy you. Cherish whatever you think makes you hot and be prepared to tell the women you meet what it is.

3. What makes you sexy that other people don’t have to go on?

Whether it’s your uber open-minded attitude, great core values or that trick you can do with your tongue know what makes your head and shoulders above the next guy she could hook up with. Sexiness is highly individual, and what one person might find attractive, another one will overlook. What you have going on for you is unique to you and it is up to you to highlight everything that makes you your awesome self. Want to learn more about how to be sexier in more ways than one? Join myHayley Quinn Club!

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About the author

Hayley Quinn is a leading dating and relationship coach, with 3 million views of her TEDx talk and 18 million YouTube views. She is spokesperson for Match, a columnist for Cosmopolitan, a regular contributor to international media, and has been published by Harper Collins (“The Last First Date”, 2022) and Simon & Schuster (“Do This, Not That: Dating”, 2023).

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