How Many Women Have You Slept With?

I don’t really want to know! (though you are welcome to add your digits to the comments box below 🙂


women who like you will ask you this question all the time

and most guys don’t know whether to:

a. Exaggerate the number to make you seem like more of a BOSS (*face palm*)

b. Reduce the number to make you seem like less of a player.

c. Tell the truth and be judged anyway.

Tough one!! The real trick to nailing the answer to this question is to understand

she’s not looking for a number she’s looking for reassurance

This video explains how you can speak to that secondary level of communication to make her feel at ease, and get you away from a tricky question without being deceitful (because lying just always sucks).


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