What’s your reason for waking up every morning?
Is that you have a hot date that makes your heartbeat harder? Or are you heading somewhere where you might just meet the girl of your dreams? Would she be the reason that got you out of the bed in the morning?
Have you already met her…and is it coming home to her that makes everyday rock?
Quick question then.… what happens when she doesn’t appear anymore? She leaves you, or you don’t find her?
YOUR DATE CANCELS- OUCH.
Does that now stop you from opening your eyes every morning and feeling like you want to be counted in the world?
If your motivation becomes all about one person: you give that person a lot of POWER to make you very happy, or very sad.
So make the reason you put one foot in front of the other, approach that woman, or lose 50 pounds something much more concrete.
Something in your core that makes you want to do great things in the world, every day. It should never be about that one person, that one hobby, that one goal…. it is about something MUCH BIGGER.
KNOW YOUR CAUSE.
Define your purpose in life, work out what VALUES you stand for, and everyday STAND UP to promote that in the world.
Then guess what?
You’ll have more dates too. You will have multiple reasons to get out of the bed in the morning. People won’t want to date a person who needs someone to make their life awesome.
But they will be MAGNETISED towards a person who knows who they are, what they are, and where they’re going.
Chances are they’ll want to come along for the ride…
Want to find out more about how you can be magnetic to women? Then talk to Hayley and discover how you can become better, stronger, happier.
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