The best ‘line’ to use when she says ‘no’ to your date

Ok so I don’t usually go in for teaching little ‘quick tricks’ and ‘lines’ but this one is so neat, so honest and so effective I had to share it with you…

If you feel a woman is 50/50 about meeting you (which, remember, we’re forgiving her for because she’s a woman, she doesn’t know you that well yet, so how does she know if she wants to see you…)

This little line can help bump her (nicely) from NO to YES because of it…

Is so clear that she feels assured with what she’s signing up to

She respects you being masculine and assertive

It’s non-negotiable 😉

…. so when she says she’s not sure/ doesn’t know if she’s free all evening/ if the meeting is a good idea etc etc

Your line is so here’s the plan

Then you go on to state exactly what you’re going to do like…

So here’s the plan we’ll meet straight after work for a quick drink then you can still get to your friend’s birthday

So here’s the plan this week is out- so let’s just make a firm plan to get drinks Monday instead

So here’s the plan you thought my last idea sucked (mean) so I’m going to counter suggest we leave the food and just shoot for a quick cocktail instead

Whatever her objection is seek to resolve it, reassure her and get her onto that date so you can show he every reason why she should have turned up

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